Zvemukati
Murume akangwara akamboti usapisa mabhiriji. Ichi hachisi chimwe chinhu chaunofanira kutevera. Sei? Nekuti havazi vese vari munyika ino vanokodzera nguva yako uye hushamwari.
Hauna iyo isingaverengeke nguva yekupa, saka unofanirwa kunyatso sarudza uyo waunomupa. Kupa chimwe chinhu chakakosha kudarika mari kuvanhu vaunofunga kuti chakakosha kunozvitorera kune avo vari.
Asi makore sezvaanopfuura newe, zvinoita zvine musoro.
Inyaya yenguva.
Hapana munhu ari pamubhedha werufu akati, "Ndinoshuva dai ndakapedza nguva yakawanda ndiri muhofisi."
Paunenge uine mari yakawanda, chausina nguva.
Saka zvakakosha kushandisa mari uye nguva zvine hungwaru. Kushandisa iyo mari kutenga nguva, uye kushandisa iyo nguva kuita mari.
Imwe yenzira dzaunogona kuchengetedza nguva uye nekuita mari ndeyekupedzisa hushamwari hwako nevamwe vanhu -vaya vanonzi shamwari dzekunyepedzera.
Heano maitiro ekugumisa kushamwaridzana nevanhu vanokukwevera pasi.
1. Usava nehanya navo
Kuregeredza mumwe munhu ndiyo nzira yakanakisa yekugumisa hushamwari nekuti inoshanda kune ese marudzi emanyepo uye haishande pane kwako.
Iwe haufanire kutaura navo, kudzima ruzivo rwavo rwekuonana, usashamwari navo munhau dzezvemagariro, kana chero chinhu chakadai, ingo nyarara / usaite hanya nekutaurirana, uye wapedza.
Iyo inoshanda zvakanyanya kune mhando yeshamwari inongosvika kunze kana ichida chimwe chinhu kubva kwauri. Isu tese tinoziva mumwe munhu anokwana chimiro ichi, vanogara vaine rakakura re Facebook peji, vane hushamwari, vanobhabhadzira, uye vanonakidza.
Ndidzo zvakare mhando dzinokumbira rupo rukuru. Ivo dzimwe nguva vanokwereta mari yavasina kana kumbobhadhara.
Ivo vanoitawo makuhwa zvakanyanya.
Vanoshandisa makuhwa sechombo. Vaizodzosera kumashure chero munhu anoramba kuita zvavanoda.
Kucheka hukama nevanhu vakaita seizvi kuchakufumura kune imwe yemakuhwa, asi inozopera mushure mechinguva apo munhu anoshandisa-anoteya anoteedzera munhu waanotevera.
Saka sei kumisa hushamwari nemushandisi-ane hushamwari makuhwa mongering asswipe? Varegedze uye uvasiye vachiita zvavanoda. Kana vachinzwa kuti havasi kuzobatsirwa newe, vanoenderera mberi.
2. Pisa zambuko
Iyo isiri-yakadaro-isinganzwisisike vhezheni yekuregeredza ivo. Izvo zvinoitwa nekuvharira zvese zvinobvira kusangana kwemagetsi nemunhu. Kana iwe ukasangana navo munyika chaiye, iti muhofisi, usava nehanya navo zvachose. Kana iwe uchifanira kutaura nemunhu, unovapa izwi rimwe chete mhinduro.
Izvi ndezve vanonzi-shamwari vakakutengesa. Iyo imbwa inodya imbwa nyika, uye vanhu vanopopotera pamusoro pevamwe vanhu nguva dzese. Asi isu tese tine shamwari neshamwari kuti vatitsigire, asi kana vaita zvinomonyoroka, zvinhu zvinochinja.
Kana mumwe munhu ari mukati medenderedzwa rako rekutendeseka akakutendeukira, iwe uchafanirwa kudimbura zvisungo ipapo ipapo.
Inyika inokwikwidza, asi hapana munhu anosvika chero kupi pasina kutsika pamusoro pevamwe vanhu. Kana ari mumwe munhu ane hukama hwepedyo newe, saka ivo vanogona kuzvimisikidza kubva pakutanga kana kuti havazeze kukutengesa iwe zvakare.
Saka usachengeta nyoka mumba. Zvinonetsa kuti ugare wakarinda nguva dzese. Kunze kwekunge iwe uri mhando iri kutsiva, saka imhuka yakasiyana.
Asi zvakanaka here kupatsanura munhu pasina humbowo? Iwe unogona kunge uri kuita kukanganisa kukuru uye wopedzisira warasikirwa neshamwari nekuda kwekuvhima.
Zvinoenderana nemitemo yako, asi haisi dare remutemo. Mutemo weumboo haushandi. Ndiwe mutongi, mutongi, uye muurayi wehupenyu hwako. Haufanire kuchengeta vanhu vausingavimbi navo.
Saka rega vaende zvako wega rugare rwepfungwa, kufambira mberi, uye kunamatira kune ako ehupenyu zvinangwa.
3. Tsiva
Kana iwe uri rudzi rwekutsiva, saka usavarega vaende kusvikira iwe wavadzidzisa chidzidzo. Hatikurudzire iyi nzira nekuti ndiyo inotora nguva yakawanda uye ine njodzi saka hatizokuudze maitirwo azvo.
Asi isu tinovenga vanhu vasina kunaka avo vanoshandisa mukana wevamwe vanhu uye havangatsoropodzi chero munhu anovamiririra.
Kunyangwe uine humbowo, kana iwe ukafungidzira zviito zvehutsinye kune mumwe munhu, pane zvingangoitika mhedzisiro. Chimbofunga iwe yambiro.
Kana iwe ukaenda pasi nenzira iyi, ziva kuti zvinhu zvinogona kukwira kuenda kune isingamire kutenderera kwekutsiva. Zvinowedzera kushata.
Tora woenda nazvo
Kurasikirwa neshamwari kunogara kwakaoma, asi semasero ekenza, zvirinani kurasikirwa nezamu pane hupenyu hwako. Kupedza hushamwari hachisi chinhu chakanaka, asi kuchengeta shamwari inotyisa nguva dzose chinhu chakaipa.
Nguva yako yakakosha. Isu tese tine yakaganhurirwa nguva munyika ino uye zvisinei kana uri mupfumi, murombo, akangwara, mbeveve, akanaka, kana akashata tine maawa makumi maviri nemana pazuva.
Mashandisiro aunoita nguva yako ndiwo anozotaridza kuti hupenyu hwerudzii hwauchararama. Kana iwe uchida kuzvikomberedza nevanhu vaunoda uye nevanhu vane hanya newe, zvishandise zvine hungwaru. Kuipa kuvanhu vari kukushandisa chete kutambisa nguva yako yakakosha.
Izvo zvakakosha kuti ugare wakadzikama uye kwete kuputira zvinhu kunze kweyakaenzana. Mumwe munhu akabatsira iwe munguva yakapfuura akatadza kudzorera makumi maviri emadhora hachisi chikonzero chekumisa hushamwari hwemakore gumi.
Koshesa shamwari dzako, ita shuwa kuti vanokukoshesawo. Usaverenge zvakanaka, asi iwe uchazviona kana mumwe munhu achingokushandisa. Iyi blog post inokuudza maitiro ekugumisa hushamwari, asi ive shuwa chengetedza musuwo wako kuvhurika uye ugadzire matsva. Hapana munhu anogona kupfuura noupenyu chete.