Zvemukati
- Kuchinja mune basa
- Kuroora kunoda kubvumirana uye shandira pahukama
- Vanhu vanosarudza kuramba vasina kuroora
Mumakumi mashoma emakore apfuura, takaona kukwira kwekurambana uye kudzikira kwehuwandu hwewanano. MuUS moga, huwandu hwese hwevanhu vari kuroora hwadonha hafu yemiriyoni kubva pakunyorwa kwepamusoro muma1980, vachikwenya pamamiriyoni maviri nemaviri emichato pagore.
Izvo zvakakosha kuti uzive kuti kudonha muhuwandu hwewanano chiitiko chepasirese chakanyorwa mu ⅘ dzenyika zana pasi rese.
Sezvineiwo, kunyangwe 44% yevaAmerica vari pasi pemakumi matatu vakaratidza kuti muchato wave kushaya basa, chete zvikamu zvishanu muzana zvemuenzaniso uyu havadi kuroora. Zvinotaridza sekuti vanhu vari kuyera muchato sekutsakatika, asi zvakadaro vachizvipfura. Saka, mubvunzo unomuka, wanano haichashandi here?
Chii chiri kuita kuti muchato usashande?
Zvinhu zvakawanda zvinogona kunge zvichiita kuti muchato usashande.
Pakati pavo, isu tinocherekedza rusununguko rwemari rwevakadzi, kukwira kwakazara murusununguko rwekusarudza, kunonoka kufambira mberi, shanduko yehukama, mukana wekuita bonde usati waroora kutanga, nezvimwe.
Mukadzi akazvimiririra mune zvemari mazuva ano anonakirwa nerusununguko rwekusarudza murume wake anouya. Pakutanga, zvaiwanzo sarudzwa nemhuri yake, uye aifanirwa kugadzirisa murume kwaye anokwanisa kuriritira mhuri.
Zvisinei, nhasi. vakadzi vanogona kushanda nekuzviriritira, vachiita muchato nyaya yesarudzo yemunhu pachinzvimbo chekumanikidza kusarudza. Asi, panoperera kuzvitonga kutsva uku uye hukama, vanowanzozvibvunza kuti, "Kuroora kwapera here?"
Kusiyana nezvakaitika kare, apo vakadzi vakaroora nekuda kwekuchengetedzeka kwemari, nhasi, chikonzero chikuru rudo. Izvi zvinoreva zvakare kuti kana vakasarudza kusaroora zvachose, vanogona kuzviita. Zvese izvi pamwe zviri kuita kuti muchato usashande.
Zvirinani mune nyika dzakasimukira uye dzichiri kusimukira, vakadzi havafanirwe kuroora murume kuti vave nemari kwaari.
Kuchinja mune basa
Vakadzi nevarume, mushure mekukura, vane mukana wekuzvimiririra mune zvemari. Mukadzi anogona kushanda kana afunga uye murume haachafaniri kuvimba nemukadzi wake kuti achengete imba.
Aya mabasa anogona ikozvino kuve zvekuti murume anogona kuve kugara pamba baba, ivo amai vari ivo vemhuri vanopa. Pamusoro pezvo, kuzvimiririra mune zvemari kunotendera vakadzi kuti vasarudze kana vachida kuve vanaamai vasina murume nekuti havafanirwe kuve nemurume anopa murume kuti ave mubereki.
Kuroora kunoda kubvumirana uye shandira pahukama
Kazhinji yakawanda yezvose zviri zviviri. Kuziva isu tichafanirwa kuita bargings muwanano kunoita kuti roorano iite senge isingafadzi. Nei uchirerutsa kana iwe usingafanire, handiti?
Pfungwa uye tsika nemagariro edu zviri kunyanya kufunga nezvekufara uye kuwana zvakanyanya kubva muhupenyu. Kana zvichiita sekunge muchato urikuwedzera kukosha kuhupenyu hwedu, isu hatigone kuzvisarudzira.
Zvaimbove isu takaroora kuchengetedzeka kwemari uye kuva nevana, asi kugona kuzviita uchinge usina kuroora kunoita kuti muchato usanyanya kudikanwa mazuva ano.
Vanhu vanosarudza kuramba vasina kuroora
Nhasi isu, kunyanya, tinoroora nekuda kwerudo, uye isu takagadzirira kumirira kusvikira tawana munhu chaiye. Vanhu vanosarudza kuramba vasina kuroora kusvikira vasangana nemumwe munhu wavanofanira kuita kurerutsa kudiki.
Kusave nekuroorwa kuti uve nevana ndicho chimwe chezvinhu zvikuru zvinoita kuti muchato usashande.
Bonde raimbove chimwe chezvikonzero zvakakosha zvekuroora. Zvisinei, kuita zvepabonde musati maroorana kunogamuchirwa kupfuura zvaimbova. Hatichazofaniri kuve muhukama kuti tiite zvepabonde. Uku ndiko kuremekedza here, kune vamwe, mubvunzo "Muchato hauchashandi" ndihungu.
Uyezve, kugara-muhukama kwakawana chinzvimbo chepamutemo munzvimbo zhinji. Kugona kugadzirisa zvinhu zvekugara-muchibvumirano nekunyora chibvumirano chepamutemo kwakaita kuti roorano iite senge isinganetsi.
Isu tinofanirwa kufunga kuti iyo nguva kana yekujoinha muwanano tsvene yakachinja zvakanyanya. Vanhu vairoora mukuvamba kwavo 20-is, asi izvozvi vanhu vazhinji vanoroora uye vanoita vana ivo vava nemakore makumi matatu. Vechidiki havasi kumhanyira kuva vakuru uye vanopinda muwanano. Kune mikana mizhinji uye nerusununguko zvavainge vasina kare uye zvavanoshuvira kuongorora vasati vazvivharira muwanano.
Chekupedzisira, vazhinji havaroore nekuti vanongoona muchato se "bepa" risingatsanangure hukama hwavo newavakasarudzika. Saka, kwavari, mhinduro kumubvunzo, "Kuroora haichashandi" iri mukusimbisa.
Sei munhu angade kuroora?
Kuroora kuchapera here? Zvikuru zvisingaite. Chiyero chemuchato chinogona kudzikira, uye zvirokwazvo ichapfuura neshanduko zhinji, asi icharamba ichivapo.
Wanano ingaite senge yechinyakare, asi kune vanhu vazhinji, inzira yakakosha yekuratidza kuzvipira kwavo kune mumwe nemumwe.
Vazhinji vanoona iyi ndiyo nzira yekupedzisira yekusimbisa kuzvipira uye kuzivisa kwavo kudanana.
Wanano haichashandi here? Zvakanaka, kwete kune avo vanoisa mari yekuzvipira. Kuroorana ndekwekuzvipira, uye izvo zvinoita kuti zvive nyore kuisa mari mukugadzirisa matambudziko ehukama. Muchiri muhukama, zvinogona kuve nyore kumira kugadzirisa hukama uye kuputsa, asi muchato ndewenyaya yekuzvipira.
Kuziva chimwe chinhu kunofanirwa kugara, uye munhu wacho haasi kuenda chero kupi kunogona kuita kuti zvive nyore kuisa simba mukuvandudza hukama.
Kudzikama kwemuchato kunopa chengetedzo uye kugamuchirwa izvo isu tese tinotsvaga.
Kuroora kunosimbisa zvisungo uye kunowedzera kuvimba mukuzvipira kwemumwe munhu nekuvimbika.
Kuroora paws nzira yekuvaka mhuri yakatsiga umo vana vanogona kubudirira uye vanzwe vakachengeteka. Kuroora kunoita kuti zvive nyore kuvaka mhuri sezvo paine munhu wekugovana naye mutoro. Kunyanya sezvo iwe nemunhu uyu muchigovana yakasimba kushushikana kwepamoyo.
Chekupedzisira, pane zvakawanda zvakanaka zvemari kune wanano. Mutero wemari yakadzikiswa, kuchengetedzeka munharaunda, mari yepenjeni ingoriwo mamwe emari dzinowaniswa nemuchato. Paunenge wakaroora, mumwe wako anokwanisa kuita sarudzo dzepamutemo panzvimbo yako uye ichi chinhu chisingawanikwe kune vanogara pamwe chete.
Kuroora kana kusaroora
Mazuva ano, vanhu vane rusununguko rwakawanda, uye chimwe chazvo kutsanangura hukama hwavo nenzira yavanoda. Kusarudza kuve usina kuroora, muhukama hwakavhurika, wakaroora kana chimwe chinhu zvachose chimwe chisarudzo chedu isu takasununguka kuita.
Imwe yesarudzo idzi ine zvayakanakira nezvayakaipira uye sarudzo iri pamutemo. Wanano haichashandi here? Kwete, uye pamwe hazvizombove zvakadaro. Iyi sarudzo ichiri kuita zvine musoro kune vanhu vazhinji nekuda kwezvikonzero zvemweya, zvechitendero, zvemari, uye zvetsika.