Zvemukati
- Hukama hungararama here 'kugara wega' mushure mekugara pamwe chete?
- Ndezvipi zvakaipira kugara pamwe chete?
- Kusava nehukama hwepedyo
- Kutaurirana kusina kusimba
- Nyaya dzekuvimba
- Yakawedzera kuyedza mukuchengetedza
- Mhedziso
Kuva neimwe yega nguva yako wega unogona kunzwa kunge zano rakanaka dzimwe nguva; zvisinei, kune nguva yakawandisa chete yekuti hukama hwako hunomira husati hwaputsika uye kuparara.
Nepo vazhinji vakaroorana vari mubishi kushushikana pamusoro pemubhadharo wekuroora, vamwe vaviri vari kusarudza kuroora muhoro yeguta, uye kune rimwe boka revanhu vari kuita chimwe chinhu zvachose.
Kunyangwe vanhu vachisarudza kuroora kana kusaroora, vazhinji vakaroorana vanotevedzera nzira imwechete yehukama kwavanosangana, vanowira murudo, uye vozopedzisira vagarisana.
Munguva pfupi yapfuura, zvakadaro, vamwe vanhu vari kuchinja stereotype uye kusarudza kudanana uye kuva nehukama hwakareba pasina kugara pamwe nevavanoda. Izvi ndizvo zvinozivikanwa sekugara pamwe chete.
Hukama hungararama here 'kugara wega' mushure mekugara pamwe chete?
Tisati tataura nezve kuti kugara tese pamwechete kunoshanda here kana kwete, ngatinzwisise zvazvinoreva.
Kune vechidiki varoorani, sarudzo yekugara vari vega imhaka yemamiriro emari kana nekuda kwekuparadzana kunounzwa nechikoro kana nebasa.
Sezvo vanhu vakaroorana vanowanzoita makore anopfuura makumi matanhatu, chikonzero chakajairika chekuve mu "kugara pamwe chete" hukama kuve kuzvimiririra.
Muboka diki revaroorani, ruzhinji rwevanhu vanowanzo famba nevavanodanana navo, nepo kana zvasvika pakukwegura, vazhinji vakaroorana havana hurongwa hwakadai.
Vaviri ava vanoda kugara mumba mavo uye vanonamira nemararamiro avanazvo vachiri kugara muhukama hwakazvipira, futi.
Uyezve, iro boka revakweguru rine vanhu vakaroora kare uye vane vana vakura. Ava vanhu havadi kusiya kumashure kwavo kuzvitonga uye kutanga kwese.
Zvakare, vazhinji vevanhu ava havasi mukuchengeta vavakaroorana navo, uye vamwe havadi kuomesera nhaka yemwana wavo.
Naizvozvo, kurarama hupenyu hwakaparadzana pamwe chete kunovatendera kuti vararame hupenyu nenzira yavanoda, vane yavo nzvimbo yekuita zvinhu zvavo, uye zvakare vane mumwe munhu wekumuda uye kudiwa naye.
Ndezvipi zvakaipira kugara pamwe chete?
Kufanana neese mamwe sarudzo, kugara pamwe chete kunouya nekwavo kwekusagadzikana nezvakanakira.
Kuva neimwe nguva yega kunogona kunzwa sechinhu chakanaka, asizve kuva nenguva yakawandisa yega kunogona kukuita kuti unetseke uye hukama hwako hwese huparadzane.
Zvimwe zvinetswa zvinouya nekugara pamwe chete ndeizvi:
Kusava nehukama hwepedyo
Vakaroorana vanofara kazhinji vanoratidzira rudo rwavo kuburikidza nezviito zvemuviri senge kutsvoda uye kumbundirana. Chii chinoitika kana uchida kumbundirwa pakati pehusiku?
Kumuka pamubhedha wako usina chinhu iwe uri muhukama kunokwegura, uye iwe uchazoda mumwe munhu wekumbundirana naye.
Kugara takaparadzana pamwe hukama hukama hunoshanda chete kana ivo vaviri vanhu vachida nzvimbo yavo uye vakanaka nekushaikwa kwehukama huripo.
Kutaurirana kusina kusimba
Kutaurirana kunopfuura kutaura chete. Kutaurirana usiri-wemazwi kwakakosha kupfuura kutaurirana kwemazwi muhukama hwako.
Chinyorwa chakareruka uye kufona hakugone kutsiva kunakidzwa kwaunonzwa paunotarisana nevadiwa vako, kana kana muchinge maita mambakwedza pamunenge muchichinjana kunyemwerera nekutsvodana.
Tichiri kugara tese, kutaurirana kushoma kwakajairika, uye izvi zvinotungamira kuhukama husina kusimba.
Nyaya dzekuvimba
Kuvaka kuvimba nemumwe munhu kuri nyore kuzviita kana iwe uripo kuti utarise maitiro avo uye nekucherechedza.
Uchaziva sei kana uri kubiridzirwa kana mumwe wako asiri pedyo newe nguva zhinji? Unoita sei nenyaya dzekuvimba idzi?
Kuva mu'kugara pamwe chete 'hukama hunogona kungoteedzerwa nevanhu vane simba mukutenda kwavo kuti varambe vakatendeka. Vamwe vanhu vanowanzo shandisa hukama uhwu kuti vaone kuti ndiani ariko uye voongorora humwe hukama hwakavhurika.
Kana 'pasina tambo dzakasungirirwa muhukama' chiri chinhu chaunobvumirana nemumwe wako, saka kugara pamwe chete chingave chinhu chakanaka kwauri. Asi kana iwe ukave neakavimbika nyaya, saka dzivisa kuva nerudzi urwu rwehukama.
Yakawedzera kuyedza mukuchengetedza
Kunze kwezvikonzero zviri pamusoro zvekunzvenga kugara pamwe chete zvinoitika, umwe neumwe zvinokuvadza zvinounza ndezvekuti kugara pamwe chete kunoda kuwedzerwa kugadziriswa.
Zvipingamupinyi zvese nematambudziko ekusavapo pakuungana kumwe nemumwe wako zvinokuita kuti ubvunze kana hukama hwako hwakakosha kuisa izvi mukati.
Kunyange zvingave zvakanakisa mumwe wako, kune dzimwe hove dzakawanda mugungwa, uye kana iwe ukawana munhu waunoda kugara naye, ungangoda kupedza kugara pamwe chete hukama.
Mhedziso
Mubvunzo "ko kugara pamwe chete kunoshanda here kana kuti kwete" ndechimwe chinhu chinoenderana zvachose newe.
Kana iwe uchida kuzvishandira, zvichave zvakanaka, uye kana iwe usingakwanise kuzviita, saka iri harisi zano rakanaka. Saka, sarudza nehungwaru.