Zvemukati
- Chii chinonzi malarcantist?
- Hunhu hunokanganisa narcissist
- 1. Kuwedzeredza kuzvikoshesa
- 2. Kunyanyisa kushandisa
- 3. Kusagarisana nevamwe
- 4. Paranoia
- 5. Kutarisisa kutsvaga
- Maitiro ekugadzirisa narcissist yakaipa?
- 1. Enda kure
- 2. Tsvaka rubatsiro
- 3. Usataure
- 4. Iva wakagadzirira mhedzisiro
Chokwadi zvinonetsa kune chero munhu kubata nemunhu anozvifunga muhupenyu. Vanozvikoshesa uye vanobata vamwe zvakaipa. Vanoshaya kunzwira tsitsi uye vanoda kutonga vamwe, munzira dzese dzinobvira.
Narcissism yanga iriko kubvira mazera, asi ichangobva kuitika tiri kuona zvimwe zvacho. Kutenda kune ruzivo uye mapuratifomu ayo anotipa isu zvese zvingaite hunhu hwenarcissist.
Kune akasiyana marudzi eva narcissist, pakati pavo, yakaipa narcissist, nekure, ndiyo inonyanya kukuvadza.
Ngatitarisei kune yakashata narcissist tsananguro uye tidzidze kuti tingavaone sei.
Chii chinonzi malarcantist?
Mune zvemachiremba, narcissist anorwadza ari kutambura nehutano hwepfungwa umo mune musanganiswa unouraya wehunhu husina hukama, narcissism, sadism, uye hukasha.
Vanhu vane chirwere ichi, vanowanzo kuve nerima divi kune kwavo narcissism. Ivo vanoda kudzora chaiko munhu wese muhupenyu hwavo. Ivo vanoshaya kunzwira tsitsi uye vane hushoma pfungwa yekuzvida.
Ivo Sadistist, vasingadi vanhu uye vanowanzo kuve neparanoia.
Vakashata narcissist vane hunyanzvi uye havane hanya kana vari kukuvadza vanhu munzira yavo. Kwavari, nyika inga yakasviba kana chena zvinoreva kuti vanoona vanhu seshamwari yavo kana muvengi.
Zvakare, kuhwina kwakanyanya kukosha kwavari kupfuura chero chinhu chipi zvacho, kunyangwe kana vari kukuvadza vanhu vakavakomberedza mukuda kuhwina mamiriro acho.
Kana zvasvika kwavari, vanogona kuenda kune chero nhanho yekuzvidzivirira kubva pane chero kurasikirwa.
Hunhu hunokanganisa narcissist
Mumwe anofanirwa kuona yakaipa narcissist kuitira kuti vagowana nzira yekugadzirisa navo.
Ngatitarisei zvimwe zvezvakakurumbira zviratidzo zvakaipa zveva narcissist kuti tinzwisise zviri nani.
1. Kuwedzeredza kuzvikoshesa
Chivimbo chinofanirwa, asi chete kana izvi zvikachengetedzwa.
Kunyanya kuzvivimba kunoonekwa sehunhu hwakaipa.
Izvi ndizvo zvinoitika nevanonyangadza narcissists. Vanoratidza chivimbo chakakura uye vanoda kuti vamwe vavabate sevakuru vavo. Ivo havana basa kana vaine budiriro inotsigira chivimbo chavo, asi chavanoda chete kuve chakakwirira kune vanhu vakavakomberedza.
Kuti vakwanise kuita izvi, havazonyari kutaura nhema kana kunyepera zvavakaita zvakapfuura.
2. Kunyanyisa kushandisa
VaNarcissist vane hunyanzvi, kune imwe nhanho.
Zvisinei, kana iri narcissist yakaipa, ivo vanonyengera zvakanyanya. Ivo vanoda kutora mukana wega wega uye wega mamiriro ezvinhu, vasina hanya nezve kurwadziwa kwemumwe munhu kana chimiro panguva iyoyo.
Kazhinji, havangomiriri kuti zvinhu zviitike. Kana vakaona, vanofanirwa kugadzira imwe nharaunda kuti vabatsirwe nazvo, vaizozviita vasingazeze. Kunze kwezvo, ivo vanowana pfungwa yekugutsikana nekumanikidza vamwe uye kuvaisa mune inorwadza mamiriro.
3. Kusagarisana nevamwe
Sezvambotaurwa, iyo yakaipa narcissist inokuvadza zvakanyanya. Ivo havadi vanhu uye vanogona zvakare kunzi se yakaipa narcissist sociopath.
Ivo varevi venhema, vangaba kana kubiridzira uye vanogona kunge vaine mafungire asina kugadzikana. Ivo vanogara vakagadzirira kukakavara kana kukakavara nemunhu.
Vakashata narcissist vanoparadza mune zvakasikwa.
4. Paranoia
Iyo yakaipa narcissist haigone kuvimba chero munhu. Ivo vanogara vachikahadzika munhu wese wavanosangana naye.
Uyu ndiwo mugumisiro wekuzviratidza. Sezvo vachinyengera vamwe kuti zvinhu zvavo zviitwe, ivo vanotenda kuti vamwe varikuita zvakafanana navo.
Kazhinji, paranoia yakanyanyisa inotungamira kune iyo nyika kwavanowana kutyisidzira kubva kune wese munhu. Ivo vanofarira kwazvo zviri kuitwa nevamwe kana kuronga pane kunyatso tarisa pahupenyu hwavo.
Ivo vanoda kudzora avo vavanobata nepose pavanogona napo.
5. Kutarisisa kutsvaga
Ipo vazhinji vevanonyomba vachitsvaga kutarisa kune imwe nhanho, uye kunyanya kutarisisa, yakaipa narcissist hazvingafungi kuva nekutarisisa kwakashata, sekureba sekunge vari kutariswa nemunhu wese. Kune izvi, kunyangwe kana vachifanira kuve neakaipa muhupenyu hwemumwe munhu, havazozvinetsa zvachose.
Kutarisisa ndicho chinhu chakanyanya kukosha kwavari, chakanaka kana chisina kunaka, hazvina basa.
Maitiro ekugadzirisa narcissist yakaipa?
1. Enda kure
Kana iwe uri muhukama nemukadzi anonyanyisa narcissist, saka nzira yakanakisa yekutarisana nayo ndeye kungoenda kure. Isu taona ikozvino kuti vane hunhu husina kunaka uye vanogona kuenda kune chero nhanho kudzora hupenyu hwako.
Ichave hukama hune chepfu kana iwe ukaramba uri mune imwe. Saka, gadzirira uye gadzira kubuda kwakatsetseka.
2. Tsvaka rubatsiro
Ipo munhu achigona kubva pahukama, achisiya amai vane narcissist vakaipisisa kana baba richava basa rakaoma. Mhinduro, mune ino kesi, ndeyekutsvaka rubatsiro.
Bata nyanzvi uye ubvunze rubatsiro rwavo. Ivo ndivo vanogona kukutungamira uye vanogona kukubatsira iwe kuchengetedza mweya wako mumamiriro akadaro.
3. Usataure
Ukangobuda kunze kwehukama, usakanganisa kuramba uchitaurirana.
Anotyisa narcissist angade kukudzora nechero zvakadaro uye haufunge kutora matanho akawandisa kuti udaro.
Nekudaro, ita shuwa kuti iwe watyoka kwese kubata uye hausi kuonana navo zvachose.
4. Iva wakagadzirira mhedzisiro
Izvo hazvisi kuzove nyore kubata neyekuvanda yakaipa yakaipa narcissist. Saka, kana iwe wakazviziva uye wagadzirira kubuda, verenga zvese zvinogoneka.
Ita shuwa kuti wagadzirira mhedzisiro uye wagadzirira kutarisana nayo, zvisinei hazvo.