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- Vanhu vanoroora nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakawanda
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Rimwe zuva ndakaita hurukuro inonakidza nemwanakomana wangu ane makore gumi, uyo achangobva kushamisika nezvombo nekuda kweavo vatambi vegamba vaanoona vakatakura. Akandibvunza mubvunzo wakanaka kwazvo uyo waive "amai ipfuti dzakaipa" kwandakapindura ndichiti pfuti hadzina kushata mukati uye dzadzo, asi dziise mumaoko asiri iwo, uye pane nzira yenjodzi. Zvese zvaunoda irisensi yekutakura chombo. Uye sekuratidzwa kwatakaitwa kakawanda munguva yakapfuura, rezinesi ingori rezenisi rekuuraya, uye kwete nhungamiro yekubata chidimbu chesimbi chinouraya chiriporipocho. Zvakafanana, asi pachokwadi zvakanyanya kufananidza ini ndinotenda ipfungwa yemuchato. Iko munhu aigona kupinda muGuta Horo ndokuroora mumaminetsi gumi makore mashoma apfuura, ikozvino ivo vane maitiro epamhepo uko zvirokwazvo nekubhadhara imwe mari, iwe unogona kubva wagamuchira rezenisi rekuroora; nyore! Zvakanaka, kwete, kana uchifanira kudzosera maitiro ....
Vanhu vanoroora nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakawanda
Kune zvikonzero zvakawanda kwazvo nei vanhu vachiroora. Vamwe vanoroora nekuda kwerudo, vamwe vanoroora nekuda mari, vamwe vanoroora nechinzvimbo, vamwe vanoroora nekuda kwekukura kwebasa, vamwe vanoroora kuti vave nemhuri yavasina, vamwe vanoroora nekuti vanonzwa kuti vanofanirwa, nezvimwewo Mushure mekugadzirisa kusawirirana kweanenge. Makore makumi maviri, ndakaona roorano yemhando dzakawanda uye mafomu, uye ini handitonge.
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Nekudaro, zvisinei nenguva, tsika, kana zera, chinhu chimwe chinofanirwa kuve nemichato yese kuti igare yakasimba, hukama hwekufananidza. Kunzwisisa kuti ndikakupa A, ndinogona kutarisira kuwana B. Inonzwika zviri nyore, asi hazvisi. Michato mizhinji inokundikana nekuti vaviri vacho havagone kuwana peji rimwe chete. Mune mamwe mazwi, mumwe mukadzi haagone kuve pasi pekunzwisisa kuti mumwe wake akamuroora nekuti anomuda, uye mumwe ari pasi pekunzwisisa kuti achagamuchirwa nemhuri nekuti anoita imba yakanaka, anovimbika, uye akanaka ne vana uye iye anogona kuve nekumhanya padivi. Kana semuenzaniso, ari kufunga kuti vakaroora nekuti iye anodiwa nezvaari, asi iye ane hurongwa hwemari yavo uye akamuroora nekuti iye muriritiri akanaka.
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Mazana emakore apfuura, kutenderera pasirese, kusanganisira Asia, Middle East neEurope pakanga paine mukwikwidzi, zvikonzero zvemuchato zvakaziviswa chaizvo senge bhizimusi chikumbiro. Semuenzaniso, Pamwe roorano yaive yekuunza runyararo kune nyika mbiri dzakatarisana, kana kuti yaibvumidza zita remhuri kuti rirambe riine vana, kana kuti rakaunza tsika tsika uye chengetedzo kuguta nezvimwe.
Hazvireve kuti ini ndiri mutsigiri wechimwe chezvikonzero izvi kana kuvatsigira. Nekudaro, chokwadi ndechekuti, ikozvino mazuva, michato yakawanda uye hukama hwakatendeuka kuva michato hwakapusa kwazvo. Ivo igore rakavhiringidzika rekuswedera pedyo, vakamhanyira mukati vasina pfungwa inonzwisisika; Ruchiva rwakavhiringidzwa nerudo, uye chisungo chisina kukodzera kana hwaro hwakasimba hwaro. Nemitambo inozivikanwa yeTV, senge yekuroora sei Millionaire, Iyo Bachelor, Kuroora paKutanga Kuona, Wife Swap, iyo Yekushushikana Yemadzimai muunganidzwa, The Makumi Mapfumbamwe Zuva Vakaroora nezvimwewo hazvishamise kuti tavhiringidzika kudaro! Zvekare, ini handisi pano kuzotonga. Kana mumwe achitenda murudo pakutanga kuona uye achida kuroora waanoda chaipo kubva pabheti, uye iye akanaka kuita mukadzi wemukombe, izvo zvakanaka nenzira dzese. Asi mudiwa haugone kushamisika kana iwe ukawana izvo zvaunowana, mushure mekunge musuwo wavhurika kubhokisi raPandora kana kana mwenje wadzimwa.
Vamwe vangangoti makore makumi mashanu chete kana apfuura, apo vana vacheche vaitanga kuchata, pakanga pasina hukama hwekufambidzana kwenguva refu uye mitengo yekurambana yaive yakaderera zvakanyanya. Zvakanaka, chokwadi chiripo, nekuda kwekuti vanhu vanogara pamwe chete, hazvireve kuti zvinhu zviri kushanda nemufaro.
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Mune ino posvo, ndiri kukukoka iwe kuti utarise nezveMuchato kondirakiti kana iwe uri kufunga nezve kutora hukama hwako padanho rinotevera kana kana iwe wakasangana nerudo irwo pakutanga kuona munhu uye uchida kusunga banga. Wanga uchiziva here kuti zana ramakore kana apfuura, hurumende isati yapinda mumichato, uye paine marezenisi emuchato, paive nezvibvumirano zvewanano? Ndipo panobva pfungwa ye roora. Zvitendero zvakasiyana uye mamiriro enyika, ane mazwi akasiyana kwavari. Katuba muchiJuda, kana Katb-el-Ketab muIslam, kana maSaramende echiHindu marudzi ese ekare ezviziviso zvemuchato kupfuura rezenisi rekuroora uye ane zvakasiyana zvinodiwa. Kunyangwe zvichinyanya kunetsekana nezvemari uye zvichinyatso kuvhiringidza kugona kwemukadzi, zvitendero zvakawanda zvakatemerwa kuti vasaite kontrakiti yemuchato nevafundisi vezvitendero, uko mapato maviri akabvumirana kumitemo vasati vaenda munzira.
Ini handisi kukurudzira chibvumirano chemari; kunyangwe ini ndichitenda kuti nzvimbo iyoyo inoda kuvharwa nechibvumirano ichifunga kuti ndicho chikonzero chakakurumbira chekurambana. Asi waiziva here kuti kusiyana nezvinofungwa nevakawanda, nyaya dzekunze kwevamwe vanhu hadzisi chikonzero chekurambana? Ehe, zvekuita zvekunze, nyaya dzemari zviratidzo asi kwete chaicho chikonzero. Zvichienderana nemavhoti mazhinji, iyo yekutanga chikonzero chinokanganisa kufungidzira nekuda kwekusataurirana zvakanaka. Naizvozvo, izvo zvandiri kupa chibvumirano chine chinangwa, apo mapato ese anonyatsotaura zvinangwa zvemuchato, nekudaro zvavanotarisira kubva kune wavakaroora naye. Chibvumirano chaizove pachena kuchata vasati varoora uye kwete mushure nekuti panguva iyoyo, chero zvinotarisirwa zvinowira kunze kwemiganhu.
Heano gumi nematanhatu madunhu makuru ayo anofanirwa kuverengerwa mune yakasimba Kondirakiti Chibvumirano:
1. Kurongeka kwebasa
- Pachave nemuriritiri wekutanga here kana mapato ese ari maviri ari kupa zvakaenzana kumitengo yehupenyu
- Pachave neakaundi account, yejoinhi account uye yega yemupiro account, kana kungopatsanura maakaundi?
- Maawa ekushanda. Maawa mangani pavhiki akasarudzirwa kushanda zvinogamuchirwa. Iyi nharaunda yaizosanganisirawo kufamba uye kuti vese vari vaviri vari muchibvumirano nehurongwa hwekufamba.
- Muchiitiko chekuti pane chirwere chemuviri, kuramwa basa kana kugumiswa, vana, nyaya dzemhuri, chirwere chepfungwa, apo mumwe wako asingakwanise kushanda, ndezvipi zvinotarisirwa?
2. Nyaya dzemumba
- Ndiani anotarisira kubika
- Ndiani ari pamusoro pekuchenesa
- Ndiani anotarisira mbichana
- Ndiani ari pamusoro pekutenga
- Ndiani ari pamusoro pekuchengetedza
- Ndiani anotarisira kubhadhara mabhiri
3. Zvinhu zvekuzvivaraidza nazvo
- Ndezvipi zvekuvaraidza zvine mumwe nemumwe zvavangada kushandisa nguva vari vega vachiita
- Ndezvipi zvekuvaraidza izvo vaviri vacho vane pamwechete zvavangada kushandisa nguva vachiita pamwe chete
- Iperesenti ipi yemari yavo yavanenge vachishandisa pamitambo yavo
- Vachange vachishandisa maawa mangani pavhiki / mwedzi pamitambo yavo
- Chii chinozoona kana hobho yanyanya uye ichikanganisa mamwe matunhu ehupenyu
4. Bonde
- Kangani kavhiki paanofungidzirwa sehutano hutano pabonde
- Ndedzipi tsika dzinogamuchirwa uye dzisingagamuchirike pabonde dzevaviri ava pamwe chete
- Mukadzi mumwe chete anofanira here kana kuti pamwe
- Maitiro ekuchengeta chishuwo chiripo uye dzivisa kutora icho chisina basa (ex Hutsanana, huremu, tsika, kuneta, nezvimwewo)
5. Kushandisa tsika
- Sarudzo dzemari dzinozoitwa sei? Mapato ese ari maviri achabatanidzwawo mubhajeti here kana kuti pachave nebudgeter inosarudzwa?
- Ko kana chero muzana yemari yemwedzi yemari inofanira kushandiswa mukushushikana inotenga vs. "Ndiri kuda" kutenga
- Vaviri vacho vacharatidza sei izvo zvinofanirwa kukurumidza vs. izvo zvisiri zvekukurumidza kutenga?
6. Vaviri ava vanoda vana here
- Kana zvakadaro vangani uye rinhi
- Ndiani achange ari muchengeti wekutanga wevana uye kana vari vaviri vari, mabasa akasiyana siyana sekudyisa, kuchenesa, kuranga, dzidzo, zviitiko, kushanya kwaMachiremba, mazuva ekutamba, nezvimwe.
- 'Kana paine chirwere chemuviri chisingabvumidze kuti vaviri vacho vave nevana, ndeipi nzira yekuita yakabvumiranwa.'
7. Kufamba
- Chikamu chei chemari chinofanirwa kusarudzirwa kufamba
- Kangani pagore panenge paine kufamba
- Ko kufamba kunosanganisira vese kana mumwe chete wevakaroora?
- Nzvimbo dzino sarudzwa sei
8. Kuvanzika
- Chii chichagovaniswa nezve hupenyu hwavo pamwe chete kana mumwe nemumwe
- Ndivanaani vachatendeukira kwavari panguva yekuomerwa
9. Mhuri uye Hama
- Inguva yakadii iyo vaviri vacho vari voga uye / kana pamwe chete vachapedza nehama pamwedzi kana vhiki
- Chii chavachaita kana kusaita nehama
10. Hupenyu Hwevanhu
- Ndiani anoronga zuva rehusiku
- Ndiani anoronga zviitiko zvemagariro kune vaviri ava
- Inguvai yakawanda pasvondo iyo yega yega munhu yaanoda kushandisa kushamwaridzana neshamwari, network, bhizinesi munharaunda, nezvimwe.
- Marii iyo vaviri vachange vachishandisa pamisangano yekushamwaridzana pamwedzi
- Kunonoka sei kunofungidzirwa kunonoka kugara zvedu tichitandara
11. Panguva dzekukonana
- Maitiro ekufunga kana yasvika nguva yekubvunza wechitatu bato
- Ndiani chipangamazano (nyanzvi kana kwete) vaviri vacho vanogona kuenda kwazvinodiwa
- Zvokuita munguva dzehasha
- Nzira yekutaurirana uye zvekutaura kudzivirira kusiya munhu kana mamiriro acho ezvinhu
Ehe, panofanirwa kuve nechinhu chekushamisika kumuchato. Ehe, panofanirwa kuve nekuvhurika kwezviitiko, uye hongu rudo zvinoreva kugamuchira. Asi iwe haugone kugamuchira izvo zvausingazive. Uye hakusi kubvuma asi kuti kumanikidza kana kunzwa kumanikidzwa kana ukatarisana nechokwadi kwete zvisati zvaitika asi mushure mekunge wati "Ndoita".