Zvemukati
- Bhaibheri rinotii nezvechirwere chepfungwa muwanano?
- Dzivisa kushandisa zvinyorwa
- Edza kubvuma mamiriro emumwe wako
Chirwere chepfungwa chakapararira uye chinokanganisa vanhu vatinoziva, rudo uye vatinotarisira kumusoro.
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Saka chii chakakonzera kuti aite izvi?
Zvinoitika kuti Kate Spade aive nechirwere chepfungwa uye anga atambura nacho kwemakore asati azviuraya. Zvakafanana zvakaitika kumubiki uye mutariri weTV Anthony Bourdain, mutambi weHollywood Robin Williams pamwe naSophie Gradon, nyeredzi ye "Love Island" akashayawo mushure mekurwa kwekushushikana uye kushushikana.
Vakakurumbira vatinotarisa kumusoro, uye vanhu vakatikomberedza pane imwe nguva vakatarisana nehurwere hwepfungwa.
Ngatitarisei kuchitendero mukuyedza kunzwisisa zvinotaurwa neBhaibheri nezvekurwara nechirwere chepfungwa muwanano.
Bhaibheri rinotii nezvechirwere chepfungwa muwanano?
Chii chawaizoita kana iwe ukaona kuti mumwe wako ane chirwere chepfungwa? Unogona kutya kuti chirwere chingakonzera nyonganiso uye mhirizhonga muhukama hwako? Chinhu chakanakisa kuita mumamiriro ezvinhu aya kubatsira mumwe wako uye kuyedza kunzwisisa matambudziko aari kusangana nawo. Kuroora kune mumwe munhu ane chirwere chepfungwa kunogona kureva kuti iwe une akawanda mabasa epamafudzi ako. Kugadzirisa kurwara nepfungwa uye matambudziko emuchato pamwe chete harisi basa rakareruka asi Bhaibheri rine ruzivo rwunovhenekera iwe. Dzidza zvinotaurwa neBhaibheri nezvekuroora nemunhu ane chirwere chepfungwa.
Bhaibheri rinotaura nezvewanano nenyaya dzehutano hwepfungwa richiti:
Nokuchenjera
“Musafunganya pamusoro pechinhu chero chipi zvacho, asi muzvinhu zvose kukumbira kwenyu ngakuziviswe Mwari nokunyengetera nokuteterera pamwe chete nokuonga. Zvino rugare rwaMwari, runopfuura kunzwisisa kose, rucharinda moyo yenyu nemifungo yenyu muna Kristu Jesu. ” (VaFiripi 4: 6-7)
Chii chinotaurwa neBhaibheri nezvekuroora kune munhu ane matambudziko ehutano hwepfungwa?
Inoti hapana chikonzero chekushushikana kana kunetseka. Kana iwe ukanamata uye uchibata mumwe wako zvakanaka, Mwari anoteerera minamato yako uye anokudzivirira kubva kune chero marwadzo uye nhamo.
Kurudzira mumwe wako kuti awane kurapwa kwakakodzera uye kwehutano hwepfungwa. Rutsigiro rwako uye moyo murefu nemumwe wako zvakakosha.
Pisarema 34: 7-20
“Kana vakarurama vachichema kubatsirwa, Ishe anonzwa uye anovanunura kubva mumatambudziko avo ose. Jehovha ari pedo nevane moyo yakaputsika, Anoponesa vane mweya yakapwanyika. Akarurama anamatambudziko mazhinji; Asi Jehovha anomurwira abude paari ose. Anochengeta mapfupa ake ose; Hakuna rimwe rawo rinovhuniwa.
Sezvakataurwa mundima dziri pamusoro, Mwari haaregerere vanhu vane chirwere chepfungwa. Bhaibheri rinotaura nezvematambudziko ane hutano hwepfungwa. Kune nzira dzekugadzirisa matambudziko ehurwere hwepfungwa uye kunyange kubudirira.
Mwari anotii nezvevanhu vane chirwere chepfungwa? Anogara navo nguva dzose, achipa simba nekutungamira
Kunyangwe kereke yanhasi ichisarudza kusagadzirisa nyaya iyi kakawanda hazvireve kuti Bhaibheri haritauri nezvazvo. Kana iwe uri muwanano nemunhu anotambura nechirwere chepfungwa, pane zvinhu zvaunogona kuita kuvabatsira munguva dzakaoma.
Chirwere chepfungwa chinogona kunetsa kubata asi iwe newawakaroorana naye munogona kushanda pamwe chete, kuva musana weumwe neumwe panguva yakaoma, uye nekuchengetedza hukama hwakanaka uye hunofadza.
Zano pakubata mumwe wako ane chirwere chepfungwa
Dzivisa kushandisa zvinyorwa
Kusheedza mukadzi wako kana murume "murwere wepfungwa akaora mwoyo" hakubatsiri zvachose uye kuri kutokuvadza.
Pane kudaro, iwe unofanirwa kutsanangura zviratidzo, dzidza zvakawanda nezve zvingangoonekwa kuongororwa uye wotanga chirongwa chekurapa ipapo. Usarange mumwe wako nekuve nehutano hwepfungwa. Kurwara kwepfungwa kwemumwe wako hachisi chinhu chavakasarudza, asi ndechimwe chinhu chinogona kutarisirwa uye kurapwa.
Edza kubvuma mamiriro emumwe wako
Vazhinji vavakidzani vanokundikana kudzidza zvakawanda nezve avo vakakosha mamwe matambudziko ehutano hwepfungwa.
Kusarudza kugara mukuramba uye kunyepedzera kuti hazvipo hakuna kunaka. Nekuita izvi, uri kuvharira mumwe wako kunze panguva yavanonyanya kukuda iwe. Pane kudaro, gara pasi nemukadzi / murume wako uye uvabvunze kuti vataure vakasununguka nezvemanzwiro avo.
Dzidzise iwe pachako nezvekurwara kwavo uye dzidza matauriro navo kuitira kuti vanzwe vachitsigirwa.
Kumbira mumwe wako kana vangada kuwana ongororo. Kuve nekuongororwa uye kuongororwa kunogona kubatsira mumwe wako kuwana nzira dzakakodzera dzekurapa. Kurudzira mumwe wako kushanyira chiremba uye zvichida kutsvaga mazano.
Funga kumisikidza mimwe miganho; kuva muwanano zvinoreva kutakura kushaya simba nematambudziko emumwe wako, asi hazvireve kuti unozvigonesa kushaya simba uku. Chirwere chepfungwa chinhu chakaoma kupfuura asi chinorapika.
Bhaibheri rinotii nezvehutano hwepfungwa?
Kana uchichengeta mumwe wako panguva yavo yekushaiwa, zvakakosha kuti ugare wakabatana naMwari. Bhaibheri rinotaura nezvechirwere chepfungwa; pamwe kwete mukudzika kwatinoshuvira kuti zviite, asi ruzivo rwakanaka ruri imomo, zvakadaro. Kana warasa tariro yese, rangarira iyi ndima “Muchikanda kufunganya kwenyu kwose paari, nekuti iye ane hanya nemi.” (1 Petro 5: 7)