Zvemukati
- 1. Haisi pekutanga muhupenyu
- 2. Havadi kukurumidza nekuda kwezvakanaka chete
- 3. Haisi michato yese iri kubudirira
- 4. Rudo ndirwo runokosha
- 5. Kuroora kunotungamira mukutsamira
- 6. Zvakaoma kuvimba nemumwe munhu kweupenyu hwese
- 7. Haisi chikonzero chakanaka chaizvo chekuroora
Sezvo isu tichikura, panouya nguva muhupenyu hwedu apo vanhu vakatitenderedza, vangave shamwari kana hama dzedu, vanoroora. Kamwe kamwe, iwe ungazozviwana iwe uri pasi pekutaridzika kana iwe uri unotevera mumutsara kana iwe wakamira nyaya yemuchato kwechinguva. Isu tinorarama munharaunda umo mushure meimwe zera munhu anotarisirwa kuroora uye kutanga mhuri. Chero ani anopfuura zera iro anomutsa akawanda tsiye.
Vanhu vakakukomberedza vaigona kukona iwe kuti uzive zvikonzero nei usina kugadzirira kuroora. Kwavari, kana iwe uchikura kupfuura rimwe zera zvinonetsa kuwana mudiwa akakodzera. Zvinotoshamisa kuti, kunyangwe mumhuri dzazvino uno, kuroora mushure meimwe zera kunoonekwa sechakakodzera kuita. Pane zvikonzero zvakawanda nei vanhu vasingade kuroora. Ngatitarisei mashoma acho.
1. Haisi pekutanga muhupenyu
Mumwe murume akachenjera akati, 'Rwendo rwemunhu. Ngavafambe vovere nzira yavo. ' Chokwadi! Wese murume pane ino nyika ane zvavanoshuvira uye zviroto. Vane zvimwe zvavanotarisira kubva kwavari. Vamwe varipo vanoda kushanda muhupenyu hwavo hwese, nepo vamwe vangave nehope dzekufamba nyika.
Zvinosuruvarisa, isu tese tinotanga kutsanangura kuti vamwe vanofanirwa kurarama sei hupenyu hwavo uye nekusaziva kupindira muhupenyu hwavo.
Pamwe,muchato hausi iwo wavanonyanya kukoshesa panguva ino.
Ivo vane yavo-yekuita rondedzero yehupenyu kwavakarota yekuzadzisa zvimwe zvinhu pane kuroora pane rimwe zera. Panzvimbo pekumanikidza chero munhu kuti aroore, zvakakosha kuti unzwisise zvavanotarisira kubva pahupenyu hwavo uye unovatsigira.
2. Havadi kukurumidza nekuda kwezvakanaka chete
Paive nenguva apo muchato waive wakakosha. Izvo zvakarairwa kuroora uye kuita vana nezera rakati. Zvisinei, zvinhu zvachinja. Pane zvinhu zvakawanda zviri kuitika izvozvi zvekuti mamwe mireniyamu haadi kumhanyira kuroora uye kutanga mhuri, ipapo.
Ivo, pamwe, vangade kuzvimiririra, kuongorora basa ravo, uye kukura zvinehunyanzvi vasati vatora basa remumwe munhu.
Kuroora kwakarongeka kana kuenzanisa ndiko chinhu chekare. Nhasi, zvakanyanya nezve zverudo. Kuroora idanho rakakura muhupenyu hwomunhu. Saka, uyo asiri kuroora izvozvi anogona kunge asingade kukurumidza kupinda mune izvi.
3. Haisi michato yese iri kubudirira
Chimwe chezvikonzero chekusaroora huwandu hweroorano dzisina kubudirira munzanga. Sekureva kwemushumo, mwero wekurambana muUSA iri makumi mashanu neshanu muzana mu2018.Belgium iri pamusoro pechinyorwa ne71%. Idzi roorano dzinokurumidza kukundikana hadzigadziri muenzaniso wakakodzera mumaziso echizvarwa chevechidiki. Kwavari, muchato hauna zvibereko uye unotungamira pakurwadziwa mupfungwa.
Tichitarisa izvi, zviri pachena kwavari kuti vafunge kuti kuroora waunoda hakuratidzi kuti zvinotungamira kuupenyu hunobudirira uye hunofadza.
Ndosaka vachiramba kuroora.
4. Rudo ndirwo runokosha
Mireniyumu yakawanda ingapokana kuti rudo runokosha uye kwete kushamwaridzana kwevanhu. Tinogona kutaura nezve kuchengetedzeka uye kugamuchirwa munharaunda, asi nekuchinja nguva, zvinhu zviri kuchinja futi.
Nhasi, vadikani vangasarudza kugara pamwe muhupenyu-mukati pane kuzivisa kushamwaridzana kwavo nenyika nekuroora kune mumwe nemumwe.
Kunyangwe mutemo urikushandurwa kuti uenzane nemafungiro aripo paruzhinji. Mitemo inotsigira kugara-muhukama uye iri kuchengetedza vese vanhu. Vanhu vari kugara murunyararo uye sevanhu vakaroorana muhukama hwekugara. Iyi ndiyo mienzaniso yekuti nguva dzakachinja sei.
5. Kuroora kunotungamira mukutsamira
Kuroora ndekwe kukamura mabasa zvakaenzana. Inodonha kana chero imwe ikatora iro rakanyanya basa. Nhasi, vazhinji vanosarudza kurarama hupenyu hwemahara, pasina rimwe basa. Ivo havadi kutsamira kwerudzi rupi zvarwo.
Kune vanhu vane pfungwa dzakadai, roorano hachisi chinhu asi keji inotorera rusununguko uye inovasunga kuimba nedzakawanda mabasa asingadiwe.
Ndivo vangade kurarama hupenyu nemaonero avo. Nekudaro, ivo vanodzivisa roorano chero zvodii.
6. Zvakaoma kuvimba nemumwe munhu kweupenyu hwese
Kune vanhu vakabiridzirwa pane zvakawanda zvavanoona zvakaoma kuvimba nemunhu. Vane shamwari dzekushamwaridzana asi kana zvasvika pakushandisa hupenyu hwavo hwese nemumwe munhu, vanodzoka.
Kuvimba ndechimwe chembiru dzehupenyu hwewanano hwakabudirira. Kana pasina kuvimba, hapana mubvunzo werudo.
7. Haisi chikonzero chakanaka chaizvo chekuroora
Sei vanhu vachiroora? Vanoshuva nazvo. Vanoshuva izvozvo. Ivo vanotoda kuroora. Mufirimu 'Haasi izvo chete mukati mako', Beth (Jennifer Aniston) ari muhupenyu-muhukama nemukomana wake Neil (Ben Affleck). Ipo iye achida muchato, Neil haatende mazviri. Towards kumagumo kana iye achinyatsonzwa kuda, anoita propose kuna Beth. Mamiriro ezvinhu akafanana akaitika mu 'Zvepabonde uye Guta ' uko John ‘Mr. Big 'haidi muchato wepamusoro uye anotonhora tsoka pamberi pewanano.
Mumwe haafanire kuroora nekuti inguva yakakodzera kana vanhu vakakukomberedza vari kuzvitaura kana mhuri dzako dzichida.
Pane kudaro, munhu anofanirwa kuroora kana aine chikonzero kana achitenda mukufambidzana uku.
Zvakanyorwa pamusoro zvimwe zvezvikonzero zvakajairika zvekusaroora makore ane chiuru uye vanhu vazhinji vanorarama. Muchato haufanire kumanikidzwa pane mumwe munhu. Icho chiitiko chehupenyu hwese uye kunzwa izvo zvinofanirwa kuve zvakaenzana.