Mwedzi 6 Yehukama Stage Chekutarisira

Zvemukati

• Zvinoshanda
• 1. Munoita zvirongwa zvekufamba pamwe chete
• 2. Unonzwa kuzara nemumwe
• 3. Munogara muchiedza kuita kuti mumwe nemumwe agare achifara
• 4. Unoratidzira mumwe wako kune vamwe
• 5. Unosuma mumwe wako kumhuri yako
• 6. Makatarisana nematambudziko pamwechete
• 7. Makaronga ramangwana renyu mese
• Chii chisingashande
• 1. Mumwe wako achiri kupora kubva pahukama hwakundikana
• 2. Unowana a negative gut gut kunzwa
• 3. Iwe unonzwa uchizeza pamusoro pehurongwa hwako hweramangwana pamwe chete
• 4. Mumwe wako haatenderi hukama paruzhinji
• 5. Unonzvenga zvakavanzika zvemumwe wako
• 6. Unorwa zvakanyanya.
• 7. Hausati wasangana nemhuri yake
• 8. Iwe nemumwe wako hamusi papeji imwe chete
• Nhanho yekuwedzera - Hurefu hwehukama hwehukama zvinangwa

Vamwe vanoti chinotapira uye chakanakisa chikamu chehukama hupi nehupi "chikamu chemuchato." Nepo vamwe vachisarudza kutanga kugadzirira mushure memwedzi mitanhatu yehukama hwehukama uye vachitarisa pane avo ehurefu hukama hwehukama, vamwe vangangofunga zvekuroora. Zvisinei nematauriro aunoita hukama hwako, ichauya nguva yekuti zvinhu zvese zvinyatsoitika, uko kudanana hakusi iko chete kunamatira kwako. Apa ndipo panotangira hukama chaihwo.

Iwe unombozvibvunza here kuti nei iyo-yemwedzi mitanhatu yehukama danho inowanzoonekwa seyekuita kana kuputsa nguva yehukama hwako? Pakati pemwedzi mitanhatu yekutanga yehukama hwako, iwe unowana iwo mapururu mudumbu rako uchinzwa, iwe unowana mufaro iwoyo, uye mufaro wekuva musoro pamusoro pezvitsitsinho murudo. Sezvavanotaura, iyi ndiyo nguva apo zvese zvinoita sekunge zvinotarisa kungozivana, kugadzikana uye kuwana zvakazara muhukama uhu hutsva.

Iwe unombozvibvunza here kuti iwe uchazopfuura kupfuura mwedzi-mitanhatu yechikamu chehusiku? Kana iwe uri, hezvino zvimwe zvinhu izvo iwe zvaungade kutarisa.

Zvinoshanda

Muhukama, tinoita zvese zvatinogona kuti tigadzirise zvinhu uye isu tosvika pakushandira munhu watinoda chete. Mukuedza kwedu kwese, tinoda kugovana kuti zvinotevera zviratidzo zvauri munzira chaiyo yekudyidzana kwenguva refu.

1. Munoita zvirongwa zvekufamba pamwe chete

Zviri nyore kufambidzana uye kufara asi kana imi vaviri mukatanga kufunga zvekufamba pamwe chete ndipo pachokwadi chiratidzo chakanaka. Tinoda kuona vakaroorana vane chivimbo chakaringana chekufamba kunyange kamwe kana kaviri panguva yemwedzi mitanhatu yehukama hwehukama.

2. Unonzwa kuzara nemumwe

Iwe unombonzwa kunzwa wakakwana kana iwe uine mudiwa wako? Wati wambonzwa seizvi zvisati zvaitika here? Kana ino inguva yekutanga saka une chimwe chinhu chiri kuitika uye izvo zvakangonaka. Kunyangwe usanyanya kuva nechivimbo, iwe uchiri kufanira kushanda nepese paunogona kuti uchengetedze hukama hwakanaka uhu.

3. Munogara muchiedza kuita kuti mumwe nemumwe agare achifara

Pave nemwedzi mingani kubvira iwe watanga hukama hwenyu? Iwe kana mumwe wako makachengetedza kunetseka uye kutapira kune mumwe nemumwe? Ndichiri kuona kuedza kwakafanana kubva kune mumwe wako? Ichi ndicho chimwe chikonzero chakasimba chekutendeseka kuti wakakwikwidzana kwenguva refu. Zvinoreva kuti wagadzirira chimwe chinhu chakakomba.

4. Unoratidzira mumwe wako kune vamwe

Kana mumwe wako achida kuti iwe uende navo pese panenge paine chiitiko chingave chiri pamwe neshamwari kana vakuru vakuru, saka uri mumwe rombo rakanaka. Izvi zvinoreva kuti mumwe wako anodada newe uye ane chivimbo chakaringana kuti iwe usangane nevamwe vake uye shamwari.

5. Unosuma mumwe wako kumhuri yako

Mumwedzi yenyu mitanhatu yehukama, mumwe wako akakukoka kuti usangane nemhuri yake here? Wakaita zvakafanana here? Kana zvirizvo, munogona here kumbofunga nezvekuva chikamu cheshamwari dzemhuri uye mhuri? Mose muri vaviri makagadzirira zvinangwa zvehukama hwenyu kwenguva refu.

6. Makatarisana nematambudziko pamwechete

Iko hakuna hukama chaihwo pasina miedzo. Kana iwe uchidada kutaura kuti iwe wakave nemugove wako wakanaka wezvinetso uye iwe wakazvikunda pamwe chete, saka zvese chiratidzo chakanaka.

7. Makaronga ramangwana renyu mese

Kana iwe watanga kutaura nezvekufamba pamwe chete kana kuroora saka inguva yekukwirisa. Iva nechivimbo asi vhura shanduko, gadzirira asi usamhanye.

Kana iwe uri muhukama uko iwe uchikwanisa kuchengetedza zvauri uye nehunhu hwako, zvinoreva kuti mumwe wako anoburitsa zvakanakisa mauri. Iwe une chinhu chaicho chiri kuitika ...

Chii chisingashande

Isu tese tinoziva kuti hapana hukama hwakakwana, muchokwadi, humwe hukama hahuzoshanda mune yekutanga-mwedzi mitanhatu yehukama danho uye vamwe havangatombo kwanisa kurova yechitatu-mwedzi chinzvimbo. Izvi zvinoitika kana munhu asingakwanise kukanganisa kana ari narcissist. Kunze kweizvi, heano zvimwe zvikonzero nei humwe hukama husinga shande.

1. Mumwe wako achiri kupora kubva pahukama hwakundikana

Kana mumwe wako achiri kuputsika mukati nekuda kwehukama hwakakundikana munguva yakapfuura - saka haasati akagadzirira. Hatisi kutsvaga zvekudzokeresa pano, isu tiri kutsvaga kwehukama hwakareba saka kana mumwe wako achiri asiri pamusoro peiye wake, izvo zvakashata zvakaipa.

2. Unowana a negative gut gut kunzwa

Vimba nezvivindi zvako. Kana iwe uchifunga kuti mumwe wako ari kunzvenga zvirongwa uye kubvunza nezve ramangwana rako, saka chatova chiratidzo chekuti haana kuzvigadzirira.

3. Iwe unonzwa uchizeza pamusoro pehurongwa hwako hweramangwana pamwe chete

Ipo shamwari dzako dzatanga kufambidzana nevamwe vavo, dzako, kune rimwe divi, dzinokanganisa zano rekugara pamwe chete. Mutsvuku mutsvuku pano chaipo.

4. Mumwe wako haatenderi hukama paruzhinji

Ko kana mumwe wako ari zvese zvauri kutsvaga asi iye asiriye wekuti anyore hukama hwako kana kutokudana kuti mumwe wake? Zvakanaka, ichi chinogona kunge chiri chiratidzo chauri kukumbira usati wabuda muhukama husina hutano.

5. Unonzvenga zvakavanzika zvemumwe wako

Zvino, haagari ari mumwe mudiwa ane dambudziko rekuti nei humwe hukama husingashande, isu tese tine zvikanganiso sekunyanyisa kuita godo kana kuti iwe unodzora mafambiro ake ese uyezve kutarisa foni yake. Izvi hazvishande - zvakavimbiswa.

6. Unorwa zvakanyanya.

Ichi chatova chiratidzo chekuti mungatadza kuwirirana.

7. Hausati wasangana nemhuri yake

Iwe wave kuda kuve muhukama hwehafu-yegore asi mhuri yake haizive kuti uriko kana zvinopesana.

8. Iwe nemumwe wako hamusi papeji imwe chete

Kana iwe uri mumwe munhu ane shungu dzekuroora kana kuita vana uye mumwe wako anonzwa kumanikidzwa nezvazvo - saka hazvina hutano. Kuroora uye kuve vabereki ndezvenguva refu zvehukama zvinangwa uye hazvifanirwe kuve nekuti iwe wakamanikidzwa kubvumirana.

Nhanho yekuwedzera - Hurefu hwehukama hwehukama zvinangwa

Kudanana chikamu chehupenyu uye isu tese tinoda kufambira mberi murefu hukama hukama zvibodzwa uye kunyangwe roora uye mhuri. Nekudaro, hausi hukama hwese huchave hunobudirira, unogona kuzviwana usiri kurova chikamu chemwedzi mitanhatu chehukama asi ichi hachisi chikonzero chekumira kuda kana kumira kuedza. Usave muhukama chete; ndoda shanda nesimba kuti uchengetedze hukama hwako. Vamwe vanoti iyo mwedzi mishoma ichaedza rudo rwenyu kune mumwe nemumwe, vamwe vanoti ndicho chikamu chinonyanya kufadza chehukama - pakupera kwezuva, chero bedzi iwe uchida kubvumirana, kunzwisisa uye kuda, ipapo uri kuita zvakanaka mukutsvaga mumwe wako kweupenyu hwese.