Zvemukati
- 1. Unogara uchiwana mari yesmony mushure mekuroora kwenguva refu
- 2. Taura mari yako yemudyandigere kana kuti hafu yayo zvachose
- 3. Kana iwe ukachengeta imba ipapo iwe unosiya chimwe chinhu mukudzoka
- 4. Vana vako chinhuwo
- 5. Dzivisa kushamwaridzana newawakarambana naye
Mazuva ano, kurambana kuri pakakwirira uye kwete chete kune vechidiki chizvarwa asiwo kune, vanhu vakuru.
Vakuru vekurambana vari kutanga kurambana zvakanyanya nekufamba kwenguva uye aya marano anozivikanwa se "grey kurambana." Huwandu hwekurambana uku hwapeta zvakapetwa mumakore mashoma apfuura.
Kunyangwe kurambana pakati pevakaroorana kwakafanana nechero kurambana, vanouya nemamwe matambudziko. Kana iwe uchinzwa senge wako anofara zvachose mushure mekupera, zvino zvataurwa pazasi zvinhu zvishanu zvaunofanira kuziva usati wasarudza nezvazvo.
1. Unogara uchiwana mari yesmony mushure mekuroora kwenguva refu
Kunyangwe hazvo vanhu vadiki vaine zvibvumirano zvenguva pfupi zvekuriritira izvo zvinovapa nerutsigiro rwemari rwavanoda kubva kune wavakazodanana naye; iyi alimony yakangoreba zvakakwana kuti ivabatsire kudzoka netsoka dzavo.
Asi kana zvasvika kune alimony yemichato inogara-kwenguva, icho chakasiyana zvachose chinhu.
Mudunhu reNew York, dare rinopa munhu mari yekumuriritira kweupenyu hwese. Kunyangwe hazvo tsika yekudyidzana ichisiyana kubva kune imwe nyika kuenda kune imwe, zvisinei; nyanzvi dzezvemitemo dzinoti vanhu vakuru vanoita zvekutamba pakurambana.
Munguva yekurambana kwevakuru, kana vaviri vakaroorana vari kushanda, ivo vanofanirwa kubhadhara iyo alimony neimwe nzira kana imwe.
2. Taura mari yako yemudyandigere kana kuti hafu yayo zvachose
Panguva yegrey kurambana, hazvina basa kuti ndiani ari kukanganisa uye ndiani asiri. Magweta evakuru ekurambana vanoti panguva yekurambana kwakadai zvinhu zvese zvinofanirwa kupatsanurwa zvakaenzana pakati pevaviri vakaroorana pamwe nemari yemudyandigere.
Saka zvaimboita kunge mari zhinji mukati memakore ako ekukura hazviite kunge zvakawanda kana zvangopatsanurwa nepakati.
Nekudaro, vamwe vakaroora 'vanotopa imwe mari yepenjeni kuti vadzivise kubhadhara mari yemendenenzi pamwedzi. Nekudaro, harisi zano rakanaka kune mumwe mukadzi kuti agamuchire pachibvumirano chakadai ichivatendera kuti vatengese mari-inofarirwa nemutero kune vangangowana mutero.
3. Kana iwe ukachengeta imba ipapo iwe unosiya chimwe chinhu mukudzoka
Vakadzi vazhinji vanoramba pakurasikirwa neimba yavo yewanano.
Hapana mubvunzo kuti kurasikirwa neimba kunogona kuve sarudzo inoshushikana, ndiyo inonzwisisika, nemari, kunyanya kana dare rakakamuranisa zvinhu zvakaenzana.
Kana iwe ukasarudza imba saka iwe pasina mubvunzo une chimwe chinhu chakakosha, zvakadaro; zvinoenderana nedare, murume wako ari kuzowana chimwe chinhu chakaenzana neimba kuitira kuti aenzanise midziyo kunze.
Ichi chinhu chinogona kuve chidiki chemalimony mutoro kana chikamu chakakura chepenjeni. Chero nzira, kungochengeta imba kunogona kuita kuti vasiye mari yekubhadhara mari uye mari yekurega basa zvoisa munhu mudambudziko.
Dzimba dzinouya nezvimwe zvakawanda zvinosungirwa uye nzira dzekubhadhara dzakadai sekuchengetedza mari, mutero wepfuma, uye zvimwe zvinodhura.
4. Vana vako chinhuwo
Kurambana kwakaoma chero padanho ripi.
Iyo sirivheri yakamisikidzwa yevakuru kurambana ndeyekuti hapana vana-vanodzwadzisa vana nyaya iyo vazhinji vechidiki vakaroorana vanofanirwa kutarisana nayo.
Kune mazhinji grey kurambana, yekushanya mirairo, rutsigiro rwevana, nezvimwe zvakafanana zvimwe zvinhu zviri kunze kwemufananidzo. Zvisinei, izvi hazvirevi kuti vana vakuru havafungi nezvekurambana.
Hazvishamisi kuti vabereki vape vana vavo vakura rutsigiro rwemari. Zvino kunyangwe hazvo vana vakuru vangangoda rubatsiro rwemari urwu kuenderera, asi hachisi chinhu chinonyorwa pasi mukurambana kunoenderera kusvika uye kunze kwekunge mwana ari kuchikoro kana akaremara.
5. Dzivisa kushamwaridzana newawakarambana naye
Munguva yekurambana, manzwiro anogona kunge akazara munzvimbo yese; unonzwa hasha, kurwadziwa, kutengeswa zvese panguva imwe chete. Nekudaro, kuraira kwenyanzvi vanhu vanoenda kuburikidza nekurambana kuti varambe vasina kwavakarerekera uye voedza kuita kuti hurukuro dzavo dzive noutano.
Hazvina basa kuti une makore mangani, asi zvakakosha kuti iwe uedze kuve nerunyararo sezvaunogona.
Kuva nekurambana kwekukakavara hakuna zvakunobatsira. Kuva nerunyararo hazvireve kuti iwe unozove bhuku rakavhurika; kugovana ruzivo senge zvinhu zvako zvaunofarira, iyo yaunoda kana zvirongwa zvako zvenguva yemberi zvinogona kupa mumwe wako ruoko rwepamusoro panguva yekurambana.
Edza kuva nehunhu, ramba uri wehurumende, zvisinei, nenzira yebhizinesi.
Kurambana mutongo mukuru uye haufanire kutorwa pachikonzero chekuti "ndinoda kuedza zvinhu zvitsva." Kupedza anopfuura makore makumi matatu nemumwe munhu hakufanirwe kukandwa kure nezvikonzero zveupenzi uye zvidiki.
Ita shuwa kuti pese paunofunga zvekurambana, chikonzero chacho ndechechokwadi. Zvirinani kusarudza kupatsanurwa pane kurambana kunyanya kana iwe wapfuura nemuzvipingaidzo zvakawanda munguva yakapfuura; rangarira, kana iwe uchigona kugadzirisa matambudziko ako iwe pawakanga uri mudiki, unogona kugadzirisa matambudziko ako kana wakura.