Zvemukati
Kune vanhu vazhinji, mhedzisiro yezvemari yekuroora ndeye nyaya yekupedzisira yekutarisa panotorwa danho rekusunga pfumo.
Paunenge uri murudo, hazviite kuti iwe "uverenge mitengo" yemuchato uri kuuya. Tichakwanisa here kuzvitsigira? Zvakadiniko neinishuwarenzi, mari yekurapa, uye mari yeimba hombe?
Kunyange mibvunzo iyi iri yakakosha, isu hatiwanzo vatendera kuti vatyaire hurukuro. Asi isu tinofanira. Tinofanira.
Iyo hupfumi hwemari uye zvakashata zvekuroora gare gare muhupenyu zvinogona kuve zvakakosha. Nepo pasina chimwe cheizvi zvakanaka nezvakaipa zvekuroora kana kuroorwa zviri "zvinhu zvechokwadi" kana "kugadzirisa vanoputsa," zvinofanirwa kuongororwa zvakakwana uye kuyerwa.
Isu tinoongorora zvimwe zvakakosha zvemari nezvakanaka zvekuroora gare gare muhupenyu pazasi. Sezvauri kuongorora runyorwa urwu, iva uri mukukurukura nemumwe wako.
Bvunzana mumwe nemumwe kuti, "Ko mamiriro edu emari achadzora kana kusimudzira muchato wedu wemangwana?" Uye zvakare, zvine hukama, "Tinofanira kutsvaga rairo kune mumwe munhu abviswa kubva mumamiriro edu uye ruzivo rwemhuri?"
Zvakanakira
- Hutano mari "pasi"
Kune vakawanda vakaroorana vakura, mukana wakanyanya kuoneka wekuroora mushure mehupenyu mubatanidzwa.
Mari yakasanganiswa yakakura kudarika yaungatarisira mumatanho ekutanga ehupenyu.
Vakaroorana vakura vanowanzobatsirwa kubva kune "mari" ine hutano. Iyo yepamusoro mari inoreva kuwedzera kuchinjika kwekufamba, kudyara, uye zvimwe zvekushandisa zvisarudzo.
Dzimba dzinoverengeka, nzvimbo dzekubata, nezvimwe zvakadaro zvinowedzerawo pasi pezvemari. Chii chekurasa, handiti?
- Yakasimba chengetedzo mambure enguva dzakaonda
Vakwegura vakaroorana vanowanzove vane bevy yezvinhu zvavanogona. Kubva pamasheya ezvitoro kusvika kuzvivakwa zvekuchengetera dzimba, ivo vanowanzo batsirwa kubva kune yakawanda yemari zviwanikwa iyo inogona kupa yakasimba robhoti yekuchengetedza mambure yenguva dzakaonda.
Zvese izvi zvinhu, pasi pemamiriro ezvinhu akakodzera, zvinogona kubviswa uye kuendeswa.
Nenhanho iyi yekuroora gare gare muhupenyu, munhu anogona kuroora mumwe wake, achiziva kuti mari yedu yatinowana inokwanisa kumupa kugadzikana kana tikasangana nerufu rwusingatarisirike.
- Shamwari yekubvunzana zvemari
Vanhu vane mwaka vanowanzo kuve nemubato wakanaka wemari yavo uye mashandisirwo. Vakabatanidzwa mune inoenderana pateni yemari manejimendi, ivo vanoziva mashandisiro emari yavo nenzira inehunhu.
Iyi nzira yekuranga manejimendi manejimendi inogona kureva kugadzikana kwemari kwemuchato. Kugovana zvakanakisa zvemari yako nzwisiso uye nzira nemumwe wako inogona kunge iri kukunda-kuhwina.
Kuva neshamwari yekukurukura newe pane bevy yenyaya dzemari kunogona zvakare kuve chinhu chakanakisa.
- Vaviri vaviri vanobatana vakazvimiririra mune zvemari
Vakwegura vakaroorana vanopindawo muwanano neruzivo "vachibhadhara nzira yavo." Vanonyatsoziva mumitengo yekuchengetedza imba, vanogona kunge vasingatsamiri pamari yemumwe wavo pavanopinda mumuchato.
Izvi zvinoreva kuzvimiririra mune zvemari zvinogona kushandira vaviri vacho pavanotanga hupenyu hwavo hwekuroora pamwe chete. Iyo yekare "yake, yake, yangu" nzira yekumabhengi maakaundi uye zvimwe zvinhu zvinokudza rusununguko nepo zvakare kugadzira iyo yakanaka pfungwa yekubatana.
Iyo Cons
- Kufungidzira kwemari
Tenda kana kwete, kufungidzira kwemari kunogona kupinda mune psyche yevanhu vari kupa muchato-wekupedzisira muchato mubatanidzwa. Sezvo isu tinokwegura, isu tinowanzo chengetedza zvido zvedu uye zvinhu.
Mukushayikwa kwerumwe rudzi rwekuburitswa zvizere nevatinokwanisa kuroora kana kuroorwa, tinogona kunyumwira kuti yedu yakakosha irikunyima "mararamiro" kuwedzera mari kubva kwatiri.
Kana mudiwa wedu achiramba achifumisa hupenyu hwake uye isu tichiramba tichitambura, tinoda here kuve chikamu chemubatanidzwa "unonyungudika"?
- Kuwedzera kwemari yekurapa
Chimwe chakanakira kuroora gare gare muhupenyu ndechekuti mari yekurapa inokwira isu patinokwegura. Kunyange isu tichigona kazhinji kubata makumi emakore ekutanga ehupenyu nemari shoma yekurapwa, hupenyu hwekupedzisira hunogona kuzadzwa nerwendo rwekuenda kuchipatara, kiriniki yemazino, nzvimbo yekumutsiridza, nezvimwe zvakadaro.
Kana taroora, isu tinopfuudza izvi mari kune edu akakosha mamwe. Kana tikatarisana nechirwere chakaipisisa, kana zvakatoipisisa, rufu, tinopfuudza mari yakasara kune avo vasara. Iyi ndiyo mhando yenhaka here yatinoda kupa avo vatinoda zvakanyanya?
- Zviwanikwa zvemu Partner zvinogona kutsausirwa kune vanovimba navo
Vanovimba nevanhu vakuru vanowanzo tsvaga rutsigiro rwemari kubva kuvabereki vavo kana ngarava yezvemari iri kunyorwa. Patinoroora mukuru akura ane vana vakuru, vana vake / vake vanova veduwo.
Kana tikasabvumirana nemaitiro emari vatinoda vanotora nevana vavo vakuru; isu tiri kuisa mapato ese kukakavadzana kwakakura. Zvakakosha here? Zviri kwauri.
- Kubviswa kwezvinhu zvemumwe wako
Pakupedzisira, vazhinji vedu tichazoda kurapwa kuno pfuura mwero wedu zvakanyanya. Kana isu tisingakwanise kuzvitarisira pachedu, takabatsirwa, dzimba dzekugara / dzevanotarisira dzinogona kunge dziri mumakadhi edu.
Hupfumi hwehuwandu hweiyi nhanho hwakakura, kazhinji zvichitungamira kudzimiswa kwezvinhu zvemunhu. Uku kufunga kwakakosha kune vakuru vakuru vanofunga zvekuroora.
Mifungo yekupedzisira
Pakazara, kune zvakawanda zvemari zvayakanakira nezvayakaipira zvekuroora kusunga ngarava yedu yemari kune vamwe vedu.
Kunyangwe zvingave zvinotyisa "kuvhura mabhuku" pazvinhu zvedu zvemari, zvakakosha kuti upe ruzivo rwakawanda sezvatinogona kupinda mumafaro nematambudziko emuchato.
Nenzira imwecheteyo, yedu vamwe vako vanofanirwa kunge vachidisa kuzivisa ruzivo rwemari zvakare. Chinangwa ndechekusimudzira kutaurirana kwakanaka nezvekuti mhuri mbiri idzi dzakazvimirira dzichashanda sei pamwe chete.
Parutivi rweflip, kuzivisa kwedu kunogona kuratidza kuti kubatana kwemuviri uye kwepamoyo kunogoneka, asi mubatanidzwa wezvemari haugoneke.
Kana vadyidzani vakagovana nyaya dzavo dzemari nenzira yakajeka, vanogona kuona manejimendi avo uye masitayera ekudyara akanyanya kusaita.
Zvekuita? Kana iwe usati uine chokwadi nezve zvayakanakira nezvayakaipira zvekunonoka kuroora, kumbira rubatsiro kubva kune anovimbika chipangamazano uye woona kana mubatanidzwa uchave mubatanidzwa unokwanisa wenjodzi inogona kuitika.
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