Zvemukati
- Gadzira yako tsika
- Kurukurai zviroto uye zvinangwa
- Chengeta zvinyorwa zveese akanaka nguva uye kubudirira
- Gara uchikurukura
- Gadzira tekinoroji yemahara manheru
- Isa parutivi "Me nguva" kana nguva neshamwari
Shanduko, kubvumirana, mufaro, zvakaoma, kunetesa, basa, kunakidza, kushushikana, runyararo uye kushamisa ndiwo mamwe mazwi anoshandiswa kurondedzera gore rekutanga remuchato pakati peshamwari dzangu nevandinoshanda navo.
Vazhinji vakaroora vangabvuma kuti gore rekutanga remuchato rinogona kubva pakufara uye kunakidzwa kusvika kugadzirisa uye shanduko. Mhuri dzakasanganiswa, kekutanga nguva yevakaroora, vekare vakaroora vaviri uye nhoroondo yemhuri inogona kukanganisa zvakanyanya gore rekutanga remuchato. Vaviri vaviri vanozoona yavo yakasarudzika mugove wekubudirira uye zvipingaidzo.
Ini nemurume wangu tese tiri vana chete, hatina kumbobvira taroora uye hatina vana. Tiri kusvika pagore regore rechipiri rekuroora uye takaona mugove wedu wekuchinja uye mufaro. Iwo mazwi akanzwika neni mukutsanangura gore redu rekutanga remuchato kutaurirana, moyo murefu, kuzvida uye kugadzirisa.
Kunyangwe iwe wakafambidzana kwemakore akati wandei usati waroora kana kudanana kwenguva pfupi usati wasunga iro banga; matipi anotevera achakubatsira kugadzirisa uye kunakidzwa nekubudirira gore rekutanga remuchato.
Gadzira yako tsika
Maitiro ezuva nezuva uye mazororo itsika dzakajairika dzakaiswa matiri kubva kumhuri dzedu. Uri kuunza tsika dzako, tsika, maitiro, mamiriro uye zvitendero mumhuri yako nyowani. Kazhinji, tsika idzi dzinopesana, izvo zvinogona kukonzeresa kunetsana muwanano yako nyowani. Tanga tsika nyowani mumhuri yako nyowani. Panzvimbo pekufanirwa kusarudza imba yemhuri iwe yauchapinda yezororo; gadzirira kupemberera kwezororo nemhuri yako nyowani, ronga zororo, kupera kwevhiki-svondo kana chero chimwe chiitiko chinosimbisa hukama newawakaroorana naye mutsva. Rangarira mumwe wako anouya kutanga uye ndiye mhuri YAKO.
Kurukurai zviroto uye zvinangwa
Kurota nekumisikidza zvinangwa hazvigume kana uchinge waroora. Uku ndiko kutanga sezvo iwe ikozvino uine hupenyu-hwehukama wekugovana idzi zviroto uye zvishuwo. Gadzira hurongwa hwezvinangwa zvaunoda kuzadzikisa pamwe chete uye zvinyore papepa kuti mumwe nemumwe azvidavirire. Kana zvasvika pazvinangwa zvakaita sevana uye mari, zvakakosha kuve pane imwechete peji. Kurukurai zviroto uye zvinangwa pakutanga uye kazhinji.
Chengeta zvinyorwa zveese akanaka nguva uye kubudirira
Kazhinji zvipingamupinyi, kuomarara uye kuoma kwehupenyu zvinogona kuvhara nguva dzakanaka nekubudirira kudiki kwatinowana. Sevaviri, muchave nemugove wenyu wedambudziko nematambudziko, saka zvakakosha kuti mufare kubudirira, kukuru kana kudiki, chero mukana paunozviratidza.
Ini nemurume wangu nguva pfupi yadarika takatanga "Kubudirira Jari" uko isu tese tinonyora yakanaka nguva kana budiriro yatakawana sevanhu vaviri. Tiri kuronga kubvisa chidimbu chimwe nechimwe chebepa kubva muchirongo pakupera kwegore kuti tikoshese nguva dzese dzakanaka dzataigovana sevanhu vaviri mugore rese. Ichowo imwe tsika yakakura yekupemberera yako yemuchato!
Gara uchikurukura
Chimwe chezvipo chikuru chaunogona kupa kumunhu waunoda kutaurirana. Kutaurirana sevanhu vaviri; kune muteereri mumwe uye mugoveri mumwe. Kunyanya kukosha, paunenge uchiteerera, rangarira iwe uri kuteerera kuti unzwisise mumwe wako pane kuteerera kuteerera. Kuva nekusagadzikana, asi kutaurirana kwakakodzera kunosimbisa chisungo chenyu. Nepo kutaurirana kuri kuenderera mberi, zvakakosha kuti tisachengetedze chigumbu, kubvisa rudo rwedu uye rudo kana kuranga vatinoshanda navo nekunyarara. Kutaurirana kazhinji, ngazviende uye usazomborara wakatsamwidzana.
Gadzira tekinoroji yemahara manheru
Mu2017 email, zvemagariro midhiya uye mameseji meseji zvave kuenda kune kana uchitaurirana, kunyangwe nevadiwa. Kangani kawakaona vaviri pahusiku hwehusiku nemisoro yavo yakavigwa mumafoni? Hupenyu hwedu hwakazara zvinokanganisa uye kazhinji, tekinoroji inogona kuve chinokanganisa chikuru kana chipingaidzo pakutaurirana. Edza kuenda ku1 manheru pavhiki (kunyangwe kana ari maawa mashoma) kune tekinoroji. Tarisa kune mumwe nemumwe, nyatso kufambidzana uye chengeta iwo moto uchipisa.
Isa parutivi "Me nguva" kana nguva neshamwari
Makachinjana mhiko dzekuroora, muri "mumwe" uye ..... kuchengetedza hunhu hwako uye hunhu hwakakosha kumuchato wako. Kuregeredza hunhu hwedu kana kurasikirwa nehunhu hwedu muwanano yedu kunogona kukonzera manzwiro ekuzvidemba, kurasikirwa, chigumbu, hasha nekushungurudzika. Kuronga nguva yekuparadzanisa kunotibvumidza isu kuve vanonyanya kukoshesa hukama uye zvinoita kuti moyo ukure unofarira.
Hapana wanano isina zvikanganiso kunyangwe mune "inofadza" gore rekutanga. Rangarira, zuva rega rega rakasiyana, roora rega rega rakasiyana. Nekuda kwekuti gore rako rekutanga harina kuzadzwa nemazororo, maruva uye zvipo zvinodhura hazviite kuti zviwedzere kukosha. Tarisira matambudziko mugore rekutanga. Gamuchirai matambudziko aya nezvipingamupinyi semikana yekukura semurume nemukadzi. Gore rekutanga remuchato riri kuisa hwaro kumhuri yakasimba, ine rudo uye inogara. Hazvina mhosva kuti chii chinouya nenzira yako rangarira kuti iwe uri pachikwata chimwe chete.