Kurera mwana akabatwa neotism kunogona kunetsa zvakanyanya. Zvinotora huremu hwepanyama pamwe nezvepamoyo pauri uye hukama hwako nemumwe wako. Julie Hornok nemurume wake vane mwanasikana ane autistic, Lizzie.Anopindura mimwe mibvunzo pakakwirira uye pazasi izvo zvaakange apfuura kuburikidza nerwendo rwake rwekuve mubereki.
1. Ndeipi imwe yematambudziko makuru awakatarisana nawo muwanano yako uchirera mwana ane autism?
Iko kumanikidzwa kweiyo autism kuongororwa kunorova mhuri mupfungwa, mumuviri uye mune zvemari, uye isu tanga tisiri voga. Mukati megore mushure mekuwanikwa kwemwanasikana wedu, Lizzie, takaenda kunogara zvakanaka mumba yangu yemaroto baba vangu yavakativakira kuti titamire kunzvimbo iri nani yechikoro uye kushandisa mari yega yega pachirongwa chekurapa chemakumi matatu-awa-pasvondo. Takanga taneta mumuviri uye takashushikana mupfungwa. Takaita hurukuro dzinopisa nezvezvikoro zvakanakisa, marapirwo uye mamwe marapirwo aLizzie. Isu tese takange takaneta zvekuti takanga tisina simba rekuchengetana pamwe nekuwedzera kune zvaidiwa ne autism. Ini ndinofunga isu tese taigara tichinzwa isu tiri mune izvi tega.
2. Sevabereki vemwana ane autism, imi nemurume wako munowana sei nguva yekuva pamwe chete?
Takakomborerwa mune izvo, vabereki vangu vakagara vakazvipira kutora vana, kuti tikwanise kuenda kure nguva dzose. Dzimwe nguva tinoenda kunoswera husiku kuresitorendi kana mumamuvhi. Kamwe chete pagore, tinoenda kune imwe nzvimbo kwehusiku hushoma. Handigare ndichinzwa sekuda kusiya vana, asi zvinoda kusiya dzvinyiriro yevana kumba kuti ndizorore uye ndirangarire kuti nei ndakamuda.
3. Tiudze chii chave chiri chinonyanya kubatsira mumuchato wako panguva dzekunetseka kwakanyanya?
Handifunge kuti ndakaita izvi zvakanaka vana vangu vachiri vadiki, asi ikozvino ndinoedza kutarisa pane zvaari ndizvo kuita pane izvo iye haisi kuita. Ini ikozvino ndaziva kuti tese tinosangana nekushushikana munzira dzakasiyana, uye zvakakosha kuti tipe mumwe nemumwe nzvimbo uye nyasha kana zvichidikanwa.
4. Wakasimbisa sei imba yako uchifamba nemumatambudziko pamwechete?
Ini zvino ndinogona kutarisa kumashure kunguva dzedu dzainetsa uye nekuona zvakajeka kuti aigara sei achinditsigira, achinditsigira, uye achitarisisa kufarira kwemhuri yedu. Izvo hazvina kugara zvichinzwa saizvozvo panguva iyoyo nekuti ini ndaingofunga kubva mumaonero angu, asi ndichiona kumashure, ndiri kuona kuti haana kumbobvira azununguka kubva pakuita chakakodzera ini nevana. Izvi zvakandipa rudo rwakadzama uye nekumutenda iye uye nhoroondo iyo isu chete yatinogovana.
5. Autism yakudzidzisei iwe nemurume wako nezve hupenyu hwese?
Autism yakavhura maziso edu kumatambudziko evamwe. Isu tine tsitsi zhinji uye chishuwo chekubatsira vamwe sezvavanopfuura munguva yavo yakaoma. Izvo zvakare zvakatidzidzisa isu kurega kuenda kune iyo pfungwa yekukwana uye zvakatitendera isu kunyatso kupemberera ese madiki madiki mafambiro epamberi munzira.
6. Ndezvipi zvinhu zvakanaka uye zvinofadza zvabva parwendo rwako?
Isu tave nemufananidzo wakakura uye tisati tashushikana nezve chimwe chinhu, tinozvibvunza isu kuti, "Izvi ndezvekusingaperi here kana kuti zvichapfuura?" Izvi zvinotibvumidza kurega zvinhu zvisina basa uye kutarisa pazvinhu zvakakosha muhupenyu ... mhuri yedu, shamwari uye kubatsira vamwe.
Ini zvakare ndakada kuita kukurukura nemhando dzakasiyana dzakasiyana dzevanhu vanobva pasirese pasirese avo ndingadai ndisina kumboziva kana kuve nechinhu chakafanana navo dai chaive chisiri autism. Kana iwe ukapfuura nechimwe chinhu chakaomarara, pane chisati chavepo chisungo chauinacho nevamwe vakaona zvakafanana chinhu. Hunhu hwevanhu vandakasangana navo uye nekudzika iko iko iko kwekushandurwa kwatinokwanisa kuve chinhu chikuru mufaro.
7. Kune vakaroorana vakagashirwa chirwere chehutachiona, chii chaungavaudza kuti vayeuke uye vagadzirire?
Hausi wega. Iwe hausi wega mukutambudzika kwako nemwana wako kana newanano yako. Tsvaga vamwe vabereki online, kana kunyange zvirinani, munharaunda menyu kuti muenzanise manotsi nawo. Vabereki ava ndivo vanozove hupenyu hwako.
Rangarira kutora marathon mindset nerapi. Nehurombo, ichi chinhu cheatism hachiwanzo kuenda, saka zvakakosha kuti utarisirewo iwe, murume / mukadzi wako nevamwe vana vako.
Usamborega kurwira ramangwana remwana wako, asi rangarira kutora mufaro mune uyo mwana wako izvozvi. Iwe haugone kudzora nzira yako nguva dzose, saka tsvaga nzira yekuve nerunyararo mukati mezvisingatarisirike zvinokanganisika nekutendeuka. Zvibvumire kuseka kuseka kwehupenyu hwako. Senge nguva yawakamuburitsa mutsime kuchitoro chemashopu .... akashama. Kana iyo nguva yaakatamba pamberi pechikuva kukonzati akabva akotama achifunga kuombera kwaive kwake. Kanda padivi kutonga kwevamwe uye uzvibvumire kuti uve wakanaka nezvakave mhuri yako. Nekuda kweotism, iyo yakajairwa mitemo yekurera haichashandi kwauri ... mvumo yakapihwa yekunakidzwa nayo.