Zvemukati
- 1. Mufaro, rukudzo, uye kuzvipira
- 2. Kutanga mhuri
- 3. Kukura semurume nemukadzi
- 4. Kushanda wakanangana nezvinangwa zvakafanana
- 5. Kunakirwa
- 6. Kudzivirirwa
- 7. Kukwana
Kuroora itsika yakateverwa nechaunga kwemazana emakore apfuura.
Kupfuura nguva ino, pakave nekushandurwa kwakawanda kuzvitendero uye maitiro ekufunga ane chekuita nesangano remuchato.
Pakutanga, zvaionekwa senge kuchinjana kwakanaka pakati pemurume nemukadzi; vakadzi vasingabvumidzwe munzvimbo yebasa vaida kuchengetedzwa kwemari apo vanhurume vakasarudza kuroorwa kwevagari venhaka uye nekudaro, roorano inoita senge mhinduro kwayo kune ese maviri madambudziko.
Munguva ino yemazuvano, chinangwa chewanano zvachinja zvakanyanya. Vanhu vanotsvaga zvakawanda zvakawanda kubva muwanano
Chero chinhu chaunoita muhupenyu chinoda iwe kuti uve nechinangwa kana kuve nechinangwa. Saizvozvowo kuroora!
Kune ongororo dzakasiyana siyana padudziro yemuchato yanhasi, uye zvinoreva zvewanano zvichibva pazvinhu zvakasiyana senge kuzviziva, kusarudza kwevakaroora, nezvimwe.
Asi chinangwa chewanano ndechei?
Pakuroora kana kuroorwa, unofanirwa kuve nechokwadi chezvaunoshuvira kutsvaga kubva muhukama uhwu uye kwaunopedzisira uchida kuzviona.
Kusava nechinotsanangurwa, chinobvumirwa chinangwa, kana kuseta zvisirizvo zvewanano zvinogona kukonzera iwe kusangana nedambudziko rekuchengetedza hukama hwako huri vapenyu uye kuhuendesa mukubudirira. Iwe unogona kutopinda mune yakasarudzika mitsara yemibvunzo yakaita sekuti 'Kuroora kunodiwa here?'
Nekuda kwekuroora kuri kuve kwakaderera nguva pfupi yadarika, vanhu vazhinji vanobvunza kuti chii chinangwa chewanano uye nei muchato uchikosha.
Heano mashoma mapoinzi ekukubatsira iwe kuti unzwisise chinangwa chewanano uye chii chinonzi muchato.
1. Mufaro, rukudzo, uye kuzvipira
Vanhu vanogovana zvido zvakafanana ndeavo vanowira murudo uye vanofunga kuzvisunga muchisungo chemuchato.
Zvinongonzwisisika kuti vakaroorana vanofunga zvakafanana vanowanzo garisana zvakanaka. Kana imi vaviri muchitsvaga zvinangwa zvakafanana muhupenyu, mese munoshanda pamwe chete kuti muzviite.
Zvinoonekwa kuti vakaroorana vanogovana chinangwa cheupenyu chimwe uye vanoedza kuzviita, vanoisa hwaro hwemuchato unobudirira. Vakaroorana vakadaro vanotsigirana kuburikidza nezvose, vanotenda, vanodanana, uye vanogovana mufaro pamusoro pemafaro akafanana.
2. Kutanga mhuri
Vazhinji vakaroorana vanoshuvira vana vachangoroora. Zvakajairika kuti vanhu vakaroorana vave nevana mushure mekuroora uye vanozviona sechinangwa chakakosha chekuroora. Izvi zvakanyatsoruramiswa.
Vana vanoonekwa senzira yekuwedzera mutsara wemhuri, kuendesa mberi tsika dzemhuri pamwe nenhaka yemhuri. Vana vanowanzo swededza vaviri vacho padhuze nepadhuze, uye rudo rwavo kune mumwe nemumwe runongokura chete.
Kuva chidimbu chisipo mumhuri yakazara, vana vanosimudzira chimiro chechimiro chevaviri ava semhuri yakapera ndizvo zvinoonekwa semhuri inofara, inobudirira.
3. Kukura semurume nemukadzi
Mukana wekukura nekuzvichengeta wega padivi pemudiwa wako ndechimwe chezvipo zvakanakisa zvekuroora.
Iwe unogona kudzidza uye kushandura kuita iri nani vhezheni yako, uve izvo zvawagara uchida kuva. Kukura kunotambanudza miganho yenzvimbo yako yekunyaradza uye kukusundira iwe kumiganhu yako kuburitsa kugona kukuru kwako semunhu.
Izvi zvakanaka kuti iwe uchengetedze imba yako irarame uye ichiitika.
Imwe yemabhenefiti emuchato ndeyekuti iwe nemumwe wako muchadzidza kushandira pamwe uye panzvimbo pacho mobatsirana kushanda munguva dzakaoma.
Sezvo iwe uchikura, iwe une wako mudiwa unonyanya kufarira pamoyo. Iwe unozotanga kuita zvimwe zvinofadza mumwe wako, mira padivi pavo, uye uvatsigire pane zvese uchivharira mumwe wako kubva kune chero chinhu chinoita kuti vasagadzikane.
4. Kushanda wakanangana nezvinangwa zvakafanana
Kuva wakaroora kunovimbisa kuti kune mumwe munhu anokuda.
Kunzwa kwekusimbiswa ndiko kukurudzira kukuru kuzviremekedza kwemunhu uye kunongokurudzira kuzvipira pakati pevakaroorana.
Kana vaviri vakaroorana vachidanana, ivo zvakare vanoremekedzana mumwe nemumwe nehukama hwavo hwese mukusimbisa kuzvipira kwavo pane kusundidzirana pasi.
Hukama hunofanirwa kuve nekuvimba zvakanyanya, rudo, uye kuremekedzwa, uye pasina nzvimbo yemakwikwi uye chigumbu chinoonekwa seicho chete chiitiko chewanano.
5. Kunakirwa
Chimwe chezvikonzero zvekuroora chipo chakadzama chemufaro. Pane zvakawanda zvakanakira wanano. Nekudaro, kuve nekukwanisa kunakidzwa iwe muhukama ndicho chimwe chinangwa chikuru chemuchato.
Kwete izvozvo chete, mumwe wako anofanirwa kuve kwako kunakidze uye mufaro zvakare.
6. Kudzivirirwa
Imwe yeakanakira roorano kudzivirirwa kwevakaroorana. Panofanirwa kuve nekuchengetedzwa kwezvaunofarira kune mumwe nemumwe, zvemba neizvo zvevana.
Kuwedzera, kudzivirirwa pamatanho mazhinji uye zvikamu zvakasiyana zvehupenyu kunovaka chinangwa chemuchato. Izvo zvinoshandawo seimwe yemabhenefiti ekuroora.
7. Kukwana
Sei kuroora?
Chinangwa chemuchato kutitungamira mukuzadzikiswa kana kuzara kwehupenyu. Paunoroora kana kuroorwa, unopinda muchikamu chakakosha chehupenyu icho chinokutungamira kune chinofadza nyika.
Kana iwe uchinzwa wega muwanano, ichi ndicho chimwe chezviratidzo zvaunofanirwa kushanda mairi pamwe chete kuti uve rwendo rwunosimbisa.
Muvhidhiyo pazasi, Sharon Pope anokurukura nezvekurwira mumichato isina kubatana. Iyo nhaurirano inosarudza kana vaviri vacho vachigona kugadzirisa muchato wavo voita kuti uvezve wakanaka kana iri nguva yekusunungura zvine rudo muchato.
Yekupedzisira tora
Kuroora kunonzi ndiyo nzira yekugutsa uye kutsigira nhengo dzemhuri nenzira dzakasiyana, pamoyo, pabonde, uye nepfungwa. Kuroora kunoonekwa sedanho rakakosha muhupenyu hwemunhu.
Chinangwa chemuchato chataurwa pamusoro apa ndechekubatsira iwe kuti unzwisise kuti imba ndeyei uye nekuisa zvinotarisirwa kubva mairi.