Zvemukati
- 1. Ratidza kuremekedza mukadzi wako
- 2. Pedza nguva naye
- 3. Iti 'Ndinokuda "zvakare uye zvakare
- 4. Ziva mutauro wake werudo
- 5. Ratidza kudanana
- 6. Verenga mabhuku aya
Iko kubatana, kufambidzana, kuswedera padhuze kana chimiro chehukama hwepedyo aka bonde? Chaizvoizvo, kudanana mumuchato ndizvo zvese izvi zvinhu nenzira yedudziro. Tinogona kuisa hukama hwepedyo muzvikamu zviviri
- Kushamwaridzana Manzwiro
- Kushamwaridzana Panyama
Kunyangwe zvese zviri zviviri kushushikana kwepamoyo uye kwemuviri kuchikosha kumuchato unofadza, kazhinji varume vanofarira hukama hwepedyo uye vakadzi vanofarira hukama hwehukama.
Chii chinoitika kana paine kushayikwa kwehukama muwanano?
Zvakanaka kana pasina hukama hwepedyo muwanano, kunyanya hukama hwehukama, hukama huri pamubhedha werufu uye ingori nyaya yenguva iyo painopera.
Sei kushamwaridzana kwepamoyo kuchikosha kune vakadzi?
Nemasikirwo, vakadzi vanoda kunzwa kwekuchengetedzeka kwepamoyo. Vanoda pavanogona kuvimba nemumwe munhu pamoyo.
Kune vakadzi, hukama hwepedyo hwakafanana nekeke uye hukama hwepedyo iking keke. Iko hakuna chikonzero chekukanda keke kana pasina keke.
Nei murume achifanira kuyedza kuvaka hukama hwepedyo muwanano?
Zvakafanana nekupa uye kutora. Iwe unopa mukadzi wako hukama hwehukama uye semhedzisiro, iye achadzorera kumashure kufarirwa nehukama hwepanyama. Iko kukunda-kuhwina kune vese murume nemukadzi.
Sei murume anogona kuvaka kudanana muwanano?
1. Ratidza kuremekedza mukadzi wako
Ruremekedzo ndicho chinhu chekutanga chinhu chinodiwa nemukadzi muhukama hwerudo.
Remekedza manzwiro ake, kutonga, zviroto, uye sarudzo. Muratidze kuti iwe unomuremekedza nekumuteerera zvakanyatsonaka uye nekusaudza majee pamutengo wake.
2. Pedza nguva naye
Iye achada kana iwe uchizopedza nguva naye.Anoda kutarisisa kwako, saka bvisa mafoni, dzima masikirini uye uve nemoyo wekukurukura naye. Teerera kurota kwake, zvinangwa, uye kutya. Vhura uye muudze iye ako akadzika manzwiro.
Goverana chiitiko senge kuverenga bhuku, kurovedza muviri, kuona bhaisikopo, kutamba mutambo kana chero zvamunoda mose. Murege asarudze kuti anoda kushandisa sei nguva newe uye kuti afare zvechokwadi kuzadzisa chishuwo chake.
3. Iti 'Ndinokuda "zvakare uye zvakare
Vakadzi vanoda kuvimbiswa zvakanyanya, saka kuteerera kureurura kwako kwerudo kamwe chete hakuna kumukwanira. Iye anoziva kuti iwe unomuda asi utaure zvakare zvakare iye anonyatsoda kuiteerera.
4. Ziva mutauro wake werudo
Sekureva kwa Dr. Gary Chapman, kune mitauro mishanu yerudo inosanganisira kubata panyama, kugamuchira zvipo, zviito zvekushandira, mazwi ekusimbisa uye nguva yakanaka. Wese munhu anonzwa kudiwa zvakanyanya kana achidiwa mumutauro wavo werudo wavanoda.
Ziva mutauro werudo wemukadzi wako uye muratidze rudo rwake mumutauro iwoyo. Kumbira mukadzi wako kuti atore bvunzo iyi (https://www.5lovelanguages.com/) kuti uone mutauro wake werudo.
5. Ratidza kudanana
Hapana chinotendeukira mukadzi kupfuura rudo rwepanyama rwusiri kutsvaga mubairo mukudzoka. Iva anodiwa panyama nemumwe wako, mubate nerudo, mutsvode uye umumbundire pasina chinangwa chekurara naye.
Kana iye achiziva kuti hapana 'chakavanzika ajenda' kuseri kwerudo rwako, anogona nerudo kukupa iwe zvaunoda asi kana akasvika pakuziva kuti iwe uri mushure mechimwe chinhu ipapo kuedza kwako kwekuratidza rudo kunova pasina.
6. Verenga mabhuku aya
Kuti uzive mukadzi wako zvirinani, ndinokurudzira zvikuru kuverenga kana kuteerera mabhuku maviri anotevera.
- Varume vanobva kuMars & Vakadzi vari Kubva kuVenus naJohn Grey
- Mitauro mishanu yeRudo naDr Gary Chapman
Ose ari maviri mabhuku aya anoshamisa uye anokupa iwe chaiko nzwisiso yemoyo nepfungwa dzevakomana kana vasikana.
Kudanana muwanano kwakakosha pakubudirira kwayo. Kushamwaridzana kwepamoyo uye hukama hwepedyo zvidimbu zviviri zvakakosha zvehukama hwewanano. Kune vakadzi, kudanana kwepamoyo chinhu chinodiwa pakuvatana.
Murume anogona kuvaka hukama muwanano nekuremekedza mukadzi wake, kushandisa nguva naye, kutaura nemuromo rudo, kuziva mutauro wake werudo, uye nekumuda panyama. Kuverenga mabhuku, varume vanobva kuMars uye vakadzi vanobva kuVenus naJohn Gray uye mitauro mishanu yerudo naGary Chapman inobatsirawo mukuziva kuvaka hukama hwepedyo muwanano.