Zvemukati
- Zviri pamutemo zviri nyore
- Inodzivirira makuhwa
- Vana havazovhiringidzika
- Iwe une chikonzero chakaringana chekudzivisa zvinhu zvinopenga
- Izvo zvakanaka nekuti zvinorerutsa zvinhu
Saka chii chinoita kuti muchato uve mukuru? Kunyanya, nekurambana kwese, kunokanganisa kuputsa, uye kusuwa kwemoyo kuri kutenderera. Mubvunzo unonakidza.
Bvunza chero munhu ari musoro pamusoro pezvitsitsinho nerudo nemumwe munhu, uye iwe unowana mhinduro. Izvo zvichave zvakasiyana kune yega yega asi, saka zvinovhiringidza kutarisa zvinhu kubva kunze kwebhokisi.
Asi kana mumwe munhu akabvunza mubvunzo wakavimbika, zviri nani kupa mhinduro yakatendeseka. Mubvunzo ndewekutaura, uchideredza kunyange. Saka mukudzivirira mamirioni evanhu vakaroora kunze uko, kusanganisira ini, ndinoda kupa masendi angu maviri panhau iyi, kungoti izvi zvitsva-zera uzivi vanofambira mberi vanofunga havazofunge kuti isu takakwana mapenzi.
Zviri pamutemo zviri nyore
Iwe haudi muchato wakasarudzika kuti uite mhuri.
Kugadzira vana nhasi kunoitwa nenzira imwecheteyo yagara iri kubva pakutanga kwenguva. Tevedzera. Saka sei vaviri nemhuri dzavo vachishandisa mari yakawanda kungo roora?
Nekuti imhemberero, vanofara. Chikonzero chimwe chete icho vateveri vanopemberera maCubs kuhwina pennant zvakare mushure memakore gumi nemasere.
Vaviri ava vanofara uye vanoda kugovana nguva iyi neshamwari dzavo uye nemhuri munzira dzakakosha kupfuura kungoisa vhidhiyo paFacebook.
Asi mhemberero yemuchato ingori iyo, pati.
Mushure memubato webachelor, chiitiko chikuru, uye honeymoon, zvapera. Izvo hazvisi izvo zvekuroora, ndezve chibvumirano chepamutemo.
Pasi penyika zhinji kodhi yehurumende, michato inosunga vaviri vacho senhengo imwe yemari. Zvinoita kuti zvive nyore kutora inishuwarenzi, kutenga imba, uye kazhinji kubvumirana kune mumwe nemumwe sechivimbiso. Zvakare zvakare kuti vana vawane pasipoti kana vakatakura zita rimwe chete serevabereki vavo.
Saka chii chinoita kuti muchato uve mukuru?
Izvo zvakanaka uye zvinonyanya kubatsira kana mumwe chete wevaviri ava akaita mari. Kana iwe usiri kuziva, Mabhangi anoda kuziva kuti wawana kupi mari yako kana usina basa uye vhura account. Icho chinhu chemari mari, verenga nezvazvo.
Kana vaviri vakaroorana vakaita mari, iyo inosanganiswa mari inoita kuti zvive nyore kuwana zvikwereti. Hapana mukuru wechikwereti anozobvunza vaviri vakaroora kuti sei vachida kutora imba yekutenga imba vobhadhara pamwe chete.
Iko kune mutero mabhenefiti futi, zvinoenderana nenyika yaunogara, asi panofanirwa kunge paine zvishoma zvinokurudzira, kunyanya kana iwe uchigara mune yekutanga nyika nyika.
Nenzira, chinhu cheinishuwarenzi chakakosha kwazvo, asi irwo bhenefiti rwandinotarisira kuti isu vanhu vakaroora hatizomboshandisa.
Inodzivirira makuhwa
Kuzvidza vanhu vanofarira kuita makuhwa, kusanganisira avo vasina hunhu avo vanoseka tsika dzechivanhu senge michato. Asi kana vaviri vakaroorana vakagara pamwe chete, vakaita bonde zvakanyanya, uye pakupedzisira, vakava nevana, ivo vanhu vasina chinhu chiri nani chekuita nehupenyu hwavo pane kutaura nezvevamwe havazowane chero makuhwa.
Unoziva mhando, idzo dzinogara dzichitsvaga kukanganisa mune vamwe vozotaura nezvazvo mudhorobha rese. Ivo vanonzwa kuti vari pamusoro pevamwe nekuda kwekuti ivo vanoita zvinhu zvakasiyana. Unoziva sevanhu vasingatendi mumichato nekuvaseka pavanotadza.
Hapana anoroora kunzvenga makuhwa. Ingori bhenefiti iri nyore inouya nayo. Izvo zvinodzivirira ivo vanhu vanoseka kutaura nezve vaviri vaviri vanogara pamwe chete pasi peimwe denga uye vachifungidzira mhando dzese dzezvinhu kuseri kwemasuo akavharwa.
Saka chii chinoita kuti muchato uve mukuru? Inoita kuti zvinhu zvive nemaonero.
Nenzira iyoyo vanochera makuhwa vanowana mumwe munhu wekumukuvadza.
Vana havazovhiringidzika
Iwe unogona kutenda kuti vabereki vari voga magamba asina kuimbwa. Ivo, uye isu takaroora vanhu tinovayemura zvakare. Asi vamwe vana vanogona kusazvitarisa nenzira iyoyo. Vanodheerera vanogara vachitsvaga chimwe chakasiyana mune vamwe vana uye pavanodaro, vanoishandisa sechombo.
Kana iwe uchifunga iyi inzira isina kufunga yekufunga, zvakanaka ivo vana. Ivo vanofanirwa kunge vasina kukura.
Kana iwe uchifunga kuti unokwanisa kudzivirira mwana wese kuchikoro kune vanodheerera, woenderera mberi uzviite, hurumende yanga ichiedza kutsvaga mhinduro yedambudziko iro kwezvizvarwa.
Saka dzokera kumusoro wenyaya yedu, kuroora kwakanaka nekuti kunoitisa vana vavo "zvakajairika." Vane baba, amai, uye munin'ina kana vaviri. Ivo havazonyara nezvemhuri yavo nevamwe vana.
Iwe une chikonzero chakaringana chekudzivisa zvinhu zvinopenga
Pane dzimwe nguva apo mukuru wako anozokukumbira kuti uwedzere kuwedzeredza kwemwedzi wakanangana nekuda kwechirongwa chakakosha chingavatorera, kwete iwe, kukwidziridzwa.
Kune dzimwewo nguva apo shamwari inounza musikana wake kumba kwake uye inoda kuyedza piritsi nyowani inogara.
Kune zvakare iyo nguva iyo yako yekare yechikoro chesekondari shamwari yausati wanzwa kubva mune imwe nguva iri kukumbira kukwereta mari yekubhadhara iye bookie.
Unogona kuti kwete, zvekare, iwe unogona kugara uchiti kwete usina kuroora, asi ivo vacharamba vachikunetsa nekuti ivo vanofunga kuti iwe hauna chimwe chinhu chiri nani chekuita. Icho chingave kana chingave chisiri chokwadi, asi vanhu vakaroora vane chikonzero chekuramba nekirasi.
Kuva wakaroora kunokupa sarudzo, unogona kuramba uchiti hongu wopenga. Nhanho yakanaka uye ndinovimba hausi kuzvidemba.
Saka hongu, chii chinoita kuti muchato uve mukuru? Haisi chaiyo hombe dhiri kana ichienzaniswa nekuhwina maOlimpiki. Haisi chimwe chinhu chichavimbisa kuchengetedzeka kwemari kunyangwe iwe ukaroora mumhuri yakapfuma.
Saka chii chinoita kuti chive chikuru? Zvinobatsira kukunda kusurukirwa? Zvinovimbisa mudiwa weupenyu hwese here? Kwete, hazviiti.
Izvo zvakanaka nekuti zvinorerutsa zvinhu
Kungofanana nenharembozha dzakanaka. Izvo zvinodzivirira kuwanda kwemusoro kana iwe wafunga kukura uye kuve nebasa kune mumwe munhu, kunyanya vana vako chaivo.
Izvo zvakanaka nekuti zvinogadzira odha. Inoyerera neyakaenzana symmetry yezvinotarisirwa nehupenyu.
Munhu asina hanya chete ndiye anoomesa chimwe chinhu chisingade kuve. Kana paine chakakanganisika nemumwe muchato, haimbove mhosva yebepa rimwe chete. Nekudaro, chidimbu chimwe chete chebepa chinogona kukudzivirira kubva kune akawanda ehupenyu mamvembure mabhora.