Zvemukati
- Ita nhamburiko yekusangana nevanhu mune chaiwo-mamiriro ezvinhu
- Iva shamwari kutanga
- Usarega izvo "zvinopwanya" manzwiro zvichikanganisa maonero ako
- Sezvo manzwiro ako paanowedzera, funga nezvedanho rinotevera
Indaneti yakashandura mamiriro ekufambidzana, uye kufambidzana nhasi kunotaridzika kwakasiyana zvakanyanya kubva kudanana makore gumi nemashanu apfuura. Bvunza chero munhu anga asina kuroora makore gumi nemashanu apfuura kuti vakasangana sei nevamwe vavo vanokosha, uye ivo vachataura chaiwo-enharaunda nzvimbo dzekugara dzakadai sebasa, chikoro, chechi kana kuburikidza neshamwari. Enzanisa izvo neiyi nhamba kubva muna 2017, apo 19% yevaroora vanotaura kusangana nevavanoroorana navo kuburikidza neinternet kufambidzana app.
Kufambidzana saiti pano kuti ugare, uye kazhinji ndiyo yekutanga yekumira kune vanhu vasina kuroora pavanopinda (kana kupinda zvakare) nyika yerudo. Kune zvakawanda zvakanakira aya masaiti, zvakanyanya kucherechedzwa kuti ivo vanopa yakakura sarudzo yevanhu vakasiyana kubva kwavanofanira kusarudza nekusangana navo. Chimwe chakakosha kukanganisika kune aya masosi, zvisinei, ndechekuti ivo vanogona kutungamira vashandisi kuti vatende kuti kune "nguva dzose mumwe munhu ari nani kusangana neinotevera swipe", kukurudzira hukama hwepfupi-pfupi, hupombwe uye kunyange kusavimbika.
Iyo hookup-kurambana kutenderera inoenderera mberi, nekuti pfungwa yehukama hwechigarire uye hwakagadzikana inogona kuita senge isingayedze kana zviri nyore kutora foni yako uye kuona mifananidzo inokwezva yevamwe vanhu, takangomirira kuti titi "Ndiri kufarira ”nekukasira-kurudyi.
Kana iwe uchida kudzivirira kuva nyajambwa weiyo hookup-kurambana kutenderera, edza anotevera matipi:
Ita nhamburiko yekusangana nevanhu mune chaiwo-mamiriro ezvinhu
Iwe unogona kuramba uchichengeta ma profiles ako achishanda pane ako aunofarira masayiti kufambidzana, asi wedzera izvo neicho chaicho-chenyika kudyidzana. Iva anoshingairira kutora chikamu muhupenyu zvakakukomberedza, kuenda munharaunda zviitiko, kuita basa rekuzvipira, kukweretesa ruoko rwekubatsira kune vavakidzani kana vamwe vanhu vanoshaya, uye kungova kunze kwenyika.
Mikana yako yekuyambuka nzira nemunhu waunogona kudanana naye yakawedzerwa, uye unenge watove neakafanogadzwa kufarira kufarira kana iwe uchinge wasangana uchiita chimwe chinhu mese imi chaunoda kuita, pane kungoita zvisina kujairika paInternet. Nekuti iwe uchave nemukana wekucherechedza munhu uyu mune chaiko mamiriro, pane kumisikidzwa internet zuva uko pane zvishoma mamiriro ekuti uvadudzire, iwe uchave nemukana wakakwana kuti uwane pfungwa yehunhu hwavo, sei ivo kudyidzana nevamwe, uye kana vachiratidzika kunge anonakidza, akakomba, vane hunhu uye vakagadzikana. Kana hukama hwehukama hwemusangano wako, panotova neyakaomarara midzi yakagadzika iyo inoderedza mukana wekuona hookup-kurambana kutenderera kunotanga nemunhu uyu.
Iva shamwari kutanga
Vazhinji vakasimba-vakaroorana, kunyangwe avo vakasangana kuburikidza neinternet, vachakuudza kuti chikamu chekusimba kwavo ndechekuti vakatanga hushamwari kutanga vasati vakwira kusvika padanho rehukama. Hushoma hurefu hwehukama hunoguma kubva kune one-husiku kumira; izvo zvinowanzo guma mukubatana-kurambana. Saka tora nguva yako kuziva shamwari yako nyowani.
Itai zvinhu pamwe chete zviri kunze kwemusha, kuti murege kuyedzwa kuti mupinde mumubhedha pamukana wekutanga. Munguva iyi yekutanga kusvika-kuziva-iwe nguva, iwe uchave nemukana wekuzviona. Iwe urikutsvaga hunhu, hunhu hunhu sekunzwira tsitsi, hunyanzvi hwekutaurirana uye kana vachifara zvavo. Tarisa pakuvaka hwaro hwakanaka hwehukama. Izvi zvinoshandira hukama zvakanaka nekuti zvinonetsa kurambana nemunhu waunonyatsonakidzwa seshamwari, uye yekupedzisira hookup ichave iri nani chose kana uchinge waita muviri, unenge uchizviita nemumwe munhu waunonyatsokoshesa uye ziva.
Usarega izvo "zvinopwanya" manzwiro zvichikanganisa maonero ako
Kana isu tiri mumaruva ekutanga mazuva ehukama, isu tinowanzo fananidza icho chinhu chedu chedu uye tinovaona ivo sevanonyanya kushamisa munhu ati ambofamba kumeso kwepasi. Zvese zvinotaridzika kupenya uye zvakanaka; havana tsika dzakaipa, dzinotsamwisa panguva ino. Edza kudzoka shure uye shandisa kufunga kwako zvine musoro apo paunenge uchiswedera padyo nemunhu uyu kuti ugone kuvaona sezvavari chaizvo: munhu akafanana newe, nezvose zvinokanganisa, kushaya simba uye kusagadzikana kwatinogovana tese.
Kana iwe ukaregeredza icho chikamu chavo, iwe ungango svetukira muhukama usingashandise musoro wako, uye izvi zvinogona kupfuudzira iyo hookup-kurambana kutenderera kwauri kuyedza kudzivirira.
Sezvo manzwiro ako paanowedzera, funga nezvedanho rinotevera
Iwe zvino wasvika padanho rakakomba muhukama hwako, imwe yauri kuenda kunochekana kana kusununguka kana kufambira mberi: danho rekukura. Kana panguva yeushamwari-yekuvaka nhanho iwe ukaona hunhu iwe hwaunoziva kuti haungatombogumbatira mumunhu uyu, ino ndiyo nguva yekuparadzana. Kana, zvakadaro, iwe uri kuda izvo iwe zvaunoona mavari, ino ndiyo nguva yekukura kuwedzera kubatana kwehukama neuyu munhu.
Iyi ndiyo nhanho apo vazhinji vakaroorana vanozounza bonde muhukama. Kana iwe urikufunga izvi, zvibvunze kana iwe wakagadzira zvakakwana hukama hwepedyo pamwe chete kudzivirira kurambana. Matanho ese aya anotungamira kune hukama hwakazvipira. Apa ndipo apo iwe nemumwe wako muchamisa, kuburikidza nehunyanzvi hwenyu hwekutaurirana, nhaurirano dzakapfuma uye hurukuro dzakadzama, dzehusiku, dzaunoda kuve pamwechete muhukama hwakazvipira, hwakasarudzika. Iwe unotora chiito uye kudzima iwo ekufambidzana maapplication, uye iwe unogadza parameter yehukama hwako hwakazara-hwakawanda.
Nekuti iwe watora nguva yako, uchifamba nhanho dzapfuura zvishoma nezvishoma asi zvirokwazvo, iwe unoziva kuti uyu ndiye iye: munhu wausingazombofaniri kupfuura neiyo hookup-kurambana kutenderera zvakare.