Zvemukati
- Chii chinonzi narcissism?
- Narcissist nevamwe uye nechomukati
- Chii chinoitika kana wagumbura narcissist
- Kutsiva kwa narcissist uye zvekuita nezvazvo
Kana iwe ukatuka kana munzira ipi neipi (kazhinji isingafungidzike) inogumbura narcissist, iwe unogona kudzidza kuti havapere panzira dzekutsiva pamusoro pako. Inogona kuve mamiriro ehero.
Kunyangwe iwe uri kurambana narcissist, kana uchiri wakaroora kune mumwe, iwe unoziva zvatiri kutaura nezvazvo. Nehurombo, kutarisana nemunyengeri, kunyangwe mumwe munhu ari narcissist wezvirwere kana kuti achingoratidza hunhu hwakadai, inosungirwa kuunza kurwadziwa kukuru nekushungurudzika.
Uye kuita kuti zvinhu zviwedzere, kutiza kubva kune narcissist hakusi kunetseka.
Chii chinonzi narcissism?
Iyo narcissistic hunhu kusagadzikana chikamu chepamutemo chiitiko chepfungwa uye psychotherapist maitiro.
Nekudaro, hachisi chinhu chaungati kutsanangudza munhu akanyanyisa kuzvibata. Iri idambudziko chairo iro nyanzvi dziri kuyedza kugadzirisa. Iyo narcissistic hunhu kusagadzikana kunouya nekushaikwa kwekunzwira tsitsi vamwe, tarisa pane zvako zvido, uye kutenda kwekuti zvese nenzira neimwe nzira zvine chekuita nemunhu uyu.
Kwete chete kurondedzera - zvinofanirwa kuve zvinofadza kwavari.
Mukurapa, narcissist anodzidziswa kucherechedza nyika nevamwe sezvavari - kwete ipapo kuti vashandire izvo zveanarcissist. Zvakangodaro, kana zvasvika kune chaicho chirwere chechimiro cheiyi boka renyeredzi rehunhu hunhu, vazhinji vanodavira kuti nzira dzenarcissist dzinogona kungovandudzwa.
Iyo narcissistic musimboti inoonekwa nevamwe kunge isingarapike.
Narcissist nevamwe uye nechomukati
Mukuita kweakadai maratidziro epasirese, narcissists akaomesesa kune avo vakavakomberedza. Vanoda, kazhinji kazhinji zvakajeka, kuti munhu wese anotamba nemitemo yavo. Izvi zvinogona kushanduka kuita zvisina musoro mamiriro umo avo vavakaroorana navo vanotorerwa hunhu hwavo.
Uye zvakadaro hazvina kukwana.
Narcissism, kunyangwe hazvo isingaratidzike kudaro, zvechokwadi inouya kubva mukushayikwa kwakanyanya kwekuzvivimba.
Munhu akadaro anogona uye anowanzo, anotsamwisa nharaunda yake. Vanouya sevanozvitutumadza, vachida, mune-rudo-navo-ivo, uye vamwe vese vanowira kure kumashure kwavo. Asi, zvinopesana ndezvechokwadi. Chokwadi ichi chinowanzovanzwa kubva kwavari zvakare.
Chii chinoitika kana wagumbura narcissist
Uye ngatizvitarisei, ndicho chinhu chiri nyore kwazvo pasi.
Zvakawanda kana zvishoma, chero iwe chaunoita, iwe nekusaziva unozoita kuita chimwe chinhu chingatsamwisa iye narcissist. Nyika yavo yakavakirwa pakakomberedza hunhu hwavo, saka zvese zvine mukana wekuvatuka. Zvino, zvinoenderana nekuda kwavo kwakanaka, unogona kubva pamwe nemamiriro ezvinhu asina kunaka.
Kana, iwe unogona kusangana nekuzara-kwakazara kutsamwa kwemunyori. Ichi chinhu chinozivikanwa zvakanyanya kune vese vakaroora munhu akadaro.
Nehurombo, hupenyu hwemurume kana mukadzi wenarcissist anosungirwa kuve anosiririsa. Kukudzora (uye ivo vanofanirwa kuzviita nekuda kwekusachengeteka kwavo), mumwe wako achauya nenzira dzisingagone kukuita kuti unzwe usina kukodzera, kupedza simba rako uye kuda hupenyu, uye kuparadza kugona kwako kuona mwenje kumagumo tunnel.
Uye iri rinongova zuva rako renguva dzose. Zvino, chii chinoitika kana ukashinga kuita chimwe chinhu chinovagumbura zvechokwadi? Kufanana nekurambana kana kutsvaga munhu asingakubate setsvina. Kana, mukukosha, ramba narcissist munzira ipi neipi.
Apa ndipo apo narcissist's chaiyo inoparadza hunhu inouya kuzotamba.
Kutsiva kwa narcissist uye zvekuita nezvazvo
Narcissists, kazhinji, haatarise zvakanaka nechero nzira yekundikana nekurambwa.
Nekudaro, kana ivo vakasangana nekurambwa muhukama hwehukama, zvinhu zvinowanzoita zvakashata. Havadi kunamatwa, uye havagone kurarama nekurambwa.
Kana ukarambwa, senge paunokumbira kurambana kana kudanana nemumwe munhu, yako narcissistic munguva pfupi-ichave-ex ingangoita ine hasha uye inotyisa. VaNarcissist, pavanonzwa vasingadiwe, usatize kukuvadza vanhu vasina mhaka, sevana vako.
Uye fungidzira kutsiva kwavangaite kune mumwe munhu wavanoona seane mhosva, senge iwewe.
Zvinoitika kanenge pasina kusara kuti kusiya narcissist kunoshanduka kuve gehena pasi pano kwemwedzi yakawanda kana kunyangwe makore. Nehurombo, zvisunge iwe nekuda kwekutyisidzirwa kwakadzokororwa, uchizadza mukurumbira wako wemagariro, kuyedza kukanganisa basa rako uye hukama hutsva, vachikumhan'arira kuti uchengete vana vako.
Chero chii chinouya mupfungwa dzako, iwe unogona kunge wakarurama.
Izvo iwe zvaunogona kuita kudzivirira kudzorera kutsiva iwe pachako
Izvi hazvimboshande. Zvinozoita chete kuti hupenyu hwako nehwevana vako huve kusingaperi kusingaperi. Asi anonyengerera haambomira kudzamara vawana mudiwa mutsva wekushusha uye wekurwa naye.
Saka, siya iwo ese mazano ehondo narcissist. Panzvimbo iyoyo, dzidza nezve narcissistic hunhu kusagadzikana, edza kuzvidzora zvakanyanya sezvinobvira uye fambira mberi nekukurumidza sezvazvinogona. Uye tora gweta rakanaka.