Zvemukati
- Imwe kiyi iyo ichaita kana kutyora mikana yako yekuwana rudo
- Iko kumanikidza kudanana, kudanana kwakakura
- Usafambidzana kusvikira iwe wafara zvakanyanya newe
- Kuziva hunhu hwemudiwa husingazombovashandira
- Uye imwe yeiyi kiyi?
- Kusunungura chigumbu kune vaimbova vadikani
Mamirioni evarume nevakadzi izvozvi, vari kutsvaga rudo. Kutsvaga rudo. Uye vazhinji vavo vanoita chikanganiso chimwe chete icho chavakaita kare.
Kunyangwe vasingazive kuti ivo vari kuita zvikanganiso zvikuru munyika yekufambidzana.
Kwemakore makumi maviri nemapfumbamwe apfuura, munyori wekutanga anotengesa zvakanyanya, chipangamazano uye murairidzi wehupenyu David Essel anga achibatsira mamirioni avanhu kuenda munzira kwayo kuti vawane kudzama kwerudo.
Imwe kiyi iyo ichaita kana kutyora mikana yako yekuwana rudo
Pazasi, David anokurukura iyo yakakosha kiyi yekuparadzanisa poindi iyo inozoona, kana iwe usina kuroora izvozvi kana iwe ukawana iro rudo rwauri kutsvaga, kana kwete. “Pane dzvinyiriro yakawanda kwazvo munzanga kuva murudo.
Vakadzi, kunyanya, vanonyudzwa zuva nezuva nezvinyorwa mumagazini, Internet, nhepfenyuro uye terevhizheni kubvunzurudzwa zvichinzi kana iwe uri mukadzi akura, usina mudiwa, panofanira kunge paine chakaipa pauri.
Varume, kazhinji, vanogona zvakare kunzwa kumanikidzwa kubva kunhengo dzemhuri, uye vavanoshanda navo sezvavanotarisa-tarisa uye vachiona vakaroorana vanoita kunge vari kufara, kana pamwe vachitanga mhuri, uye isu sevarume tinonzwa kuti tiri kumashure kwebhola sere.
Iko kumanikidza kudanana, kudanana kwakakura
Saka kumanikidzwa kwekufambidzana, kudanana, uye kunyangwe kuve nemhuri kwakakura kwazvo, zvekuti vazhinji vedu hatitombozviziva isu tinoita chikanganiso chimwe chikuru chinogona kuvharira nyore mikana ipi neipi yekuve nehukama hwakanaka uye hunofadza mune ramangwana. .
Uye iko kukanganisa kukuru kupi, kwekuti kana tikasachinja izvozvi, kunovimbisa hupenyu hwakazara nehukama hwakaderera pane zvataitarisira?
Usafambidzana kusvikira iwe wafara zvakanyanya newe
Izvi ndezvizvi: isu hatifanire kumbogara, takamboita zuva rekufambidzana kusvikira tanyatsofara isu pachedu tisina kuroora.
Chii chinoitwa nevanhu vazhinji panopera hukama? Vanotarisa kuti vasvetukire kupinda mune imwe kuti udzivise kutarisa mukati.
Kuti vadzivise kutarisa kwavo kwakadzokororwa mabasa anokanganisa rudo muhupenyu hwavo.
Kuziva hunhu hwemudiwa husingazombovashandira
Vanosvetuka nekukasira mumubhedha weumwe munhu, zvekuti havazive hunhu hwemudiwa husingazombovashandira. Uye zvipingaidzo zviripo kunze kwekunge uri kudzikira uye uwane nzira yekufungisisa nezvakakanganisa zvako zvakapfuura, uye panguva imwechete kuwana nzira yemufaro wega, rudo runenge rusina maturo.
Mune yedu nyowani yechinyakare yerudo inoverengeka inonzi "Ngirozi pane surfboard: Ruzivo rwekunzwa rudo rwunotsvaga makiyi erudo rwakadzama", tinokurukura makiyi matanhatu makuru atinofanira kunzwisisa isu tese kuti tigadzire hukama hwakadzama, hune rudo.
Uye imwe yeiyi kiyi?
Imwe yemakiyi ndeyekuti isu tinofanirwa kudzidza kuve vakanyanya kufara vasina kuroora, tisati tadzokera zvakare munyika yekufambidzana.
Mune ino inonakidza uye inotenderera seinovel, mutambi anotungamira Sandy Tavish, nyanzvi yehukama ari kutsvagawo makiyi erudo rwakadzama rwaangangodaro akarasikirwa apo anonyora bhuku rake muzvitsuwa zveHawaii, anosangana nemukadzi akasiya basa surfer uyo ari yakanyatsonaka, asi yakanyanyisa jaded kana zvasvika kune varume uye nenyika yekufambidzana.
Kunyangwe nerunako rwake rwese, anotakura pamwe naye kunyadziswa kubva kune chimwe chinhu chakaitika munguva yakapfuura, icho chinomuchengeta mune ino inogara iri mamiriro yekushungurudzika, uye jadedness maererano nevarume nehukama.
Mukukurukurirana kwavo pamhenderekedzo yegungwa, Sandy akamutsanangurira kukosha kwakakosha kwekutora nguva yekuzorora, nekugadzira hupenyu hunofadza patinenge tisina kuroora, kuitira kukwezva mumwe munhu zvakare asina kuroora uye zvinonyanya kukosha kufara navo munyika yekusaroora. .
Zvinotora zvakati wandei zvekusundwa naSandy kuti aendese uyu mukadzi pamudyandigere, Jenn, ari mungarava nefilosofi yake asi panopera bhuku iye anoona huchenjeri huri kuparidzwa naSandy.
Kusunungura chigumbu kune vaimbova vadikani
Kune mamwe zvakare mashanu akakosha makiyi erudo rwakadzama isu tinoongorora mukati meiri rinonakidza bhuku, asi kune avo vasina kuroora izvozvi kuverenga ichi chinyorwa, hapana chinhu chakakosha kupfuura kudzikira, kushanda nenyanzvi kusunungura chigumbu chako kune vaimbova vadikani, uye nekugadzira hupenyu hunogutsa hunofadza izvozvi.
Ndipo chete patinonyanya kufara nesu pachedu semunhu asina kuroora, patinokwanisa kunyatso kupa hukama hunotevera zvese zvatinazvo maererano nezvipo zvedu, matarenda, uye rudo.
Saka izvozvi, kana iwe usina kuroora, chinonoka uye teerera kune ino chinyorwa.
Kwemakore angangoita makumi matatu apfuura ndakabatsira zviuru zvevanhu kuti vatevere chirongwa chatataura pamusoro, uye kuti vafare zvisingaite vasina mudiwa, saka vanogona kuzowana hukama hwakazadzikisa husingawanikwe nevazhinji vedu muhupenyu.
Zvakakodzera basa racho. Zvakakosha kuve nemoyo murefu. Uye zvakakosha kuve usina kuroora kwenguva yakareba kusvikira wawana iyo nzira inosanganisa mufaro uye kusaroora.