“Ini ndaimbove nezviuru zvishuwo. Asi chido changu chokukuziva — zvimwe zvose zvakanyungudika. ”- Rumi
Rudo ndomumwe wemanzwiro akadzika anozivikanwa nevanhu. Unodhumhana pakati pekunakidzwa, kufara, kuwedzerwa simba, kusarara, kurasikirwa nechido, kubvunda, moyo wekumhanya, uye pakupedzisira kunzwa SEPENYU! Kune mhando zhinji dzerudo, asi vanhu vazhinji vanotsvaga kuratidzwa kwaro muhukama hwepabonde nemumwe waunofambidzana naye.Mwedzi inopfuura uye chokwadi chehunhu hwakasiyana chinotanga kunyura mukati uye kunzwisisa munhu wauri kushandisa nguva yako naye kunova kwakakosha. Kana iyo manzwiro yerudo kune uyu munhu ichatanga kusangana nekuve murudo neiyo munhu. Ino inguva yakakosha- chaipo panenge pamasvondo gumi nemaviri kusvika makumi maviri apo hukama hunoitwa kana ivo vanotanga kudonha. Panguva ino, iwe nemumwe wako munotanga kuve pamwe chete uye hunhu hunogona kusangana kana kutyorwa. Semuenzaniso, unoita sei kuti munhu anzwe kuti akakosha iwe usingazive tsika dzavanobata kuti dzakakosha? Inguva yemhando, kutsigira, zvipo, zviito zvemutsa, kubata panyama? Kuti usvike pakuziva iye munhu, kutanga, unofanirwa kugadzira hukama mukati mehukama. Kushamwaridzana pakati pemashizha kwakakosha, asi ndiri kutaura zvakanyanya pamusoro pehukama hwehukama hunowanikwa padyo nemumwe munhu. Zvepamoyo Kushamwaridzana kugona kunzwa kunetseka uye uchine chivimbo chekuti unozogamuchirwa. Kune nzira dzakasiyana dzehukama hwepedyo uye kuziva hunhu mukati mechinhu chimwe nechimwe chehukama kuchakubatsira kuzadzisa izvo zvido.
- Kushamwaridzana kwepamoyo: hwepedyo hwakagadzirwa kuburikidza nekugovana manzwiro edu, pfungwa, uye zvishuwo. Imwe yedzakareruka nzira dzekugadzira izvi kushandisa maminetsi gumi nemumwe musina zvinokanganisa zvakaita semagetsi, vamwe vanhu kana kuita zvakawanda.
- Ukama hwepedyo hwehukama: zvinosanganisira kuve nekunzwisisana uye nerusununguko rwekukurukura misoro yezvakanaka zvichibva pane zvaunokoshesa. Izvi zvinosanganisira nhaurirano nezvematongerwo enyika, chinamato, kurera vana, hunhu hwemhuri, kukurudzira, uye chero chinhu chakakosha kwauri PASINA kutya mhedzisiro.
- Varaidzo kushamwaridzana: iri kushingaira pamwe chete. Tsvaga izvo zvinhu zvaunofarira kuita kana zvaungade kusangana nazvo uzviite nemumwe wako.
- Kushamwaridzana kwemari: iko kugoverana kwemamiriro ako emari. Kushamwaridzana mune zvemari kunouya nekuvandudza chirongwa chemari yako uye nekugona kutaura pachena uye nekuvimbika kune mumwe wako maererano nezvirongwa nezvishuwo zvine chekuita nemari.
- Ukama hwepedyo: iri kugadzira kubatana kuburikidza nekubata. Kungave kubata maoko, kumbundira, kutsvoda kana kuita rudo, isu vanhu takagadzirwa kuti tide kubatwa. Kubata kunogona kutaurirana kugamuchirwa uye rudo, hukama hwepedyo nemi vaviri chete kubva pane zvamakagovana zviitiko.
Uchishandisa zvinhu izvi zvakasiyana unogona kubva watanga hurukuro yekutsvaga uye kunzwisisa hunhu mukati medanho rega rehukama. Mienzaniso yehunhu inoenderana nehukama hwehukama hunogona kuva: kugamuchirwa, kuvhurika, kujekesa, chokwadi, kuvimbika, kuvimba, rusununguko, hanya, kugona, kuda kuziva nezvimwewo. unzwe zvakasikwa chaizvo, uye zviri nyore. Kugarisana kuchave kuri nyore uye nhaurirano dzicharatidza hunhu hunoita kuti iwe uve zvauri uyezve mukati mehukama hwehukama.