Zvemukati
- Iyo murume mwana chirwere
- Chii chiri kumashure kwemurume mwana chirwere?
- Maitiro ekuita nemurume asina kushushikana murume
Isu tinoona iyo Mwana weMurume memes paFacebook, idzo shamwari dzako dzechikadzi dzinotumira nemufaro. Ivo vanoratidzira murume anotambura zvinotyisa pamusoro pechimwe chinhu chidiki, pamwe chando, kana kuti ivo vakapihwa yakazara-mafuta pane kwete isiri-mafuta latte pane yavo yavanofarira Starbucks.
Unogona kunge uchishamisika kuti mwana wemurume chii. Ngatitarisei zvimwe taura-ngano zviratidzo yemurume asati akura.
Iyo murume mwana chirwere
Hezvino zvekutarisa kana iwe uchifunga kuti murume wako kana mudiwa angave ari murume mwana:
- Anoshaya zvakanyanyisa, asi zvakare anogona kukufuratira uye otonhora zvakanyanya kwauri.
- Anogara achinyunyuta, kazhinji nezvezvinhu zvaasina simba pamusoro pazvo, senge shanduko yenguva yekuchengetedza masikati, kana kuti hapana chakanaka paNetflix. Zvese zvinhu "hope dzehusiku" kwaari, hope dzehusiku dzinokonzerwa nemumwe munhu.
- Haambozvichenesa mushure make. Kunyangwe kuri kuchenesa tereyi yake muresitorendi-yekudyira, kana kurongedza mumba, haaiti. Semwana mudiki, anotarisira kuti mumwe munhu atsvaire shure kwake uye achengete tsvina yese.
- Haambove nenguva. Nguva yako haina kukosha. Acharatidza kunonoka kumisangano uye zviitiko zvemagariro. Haazombove kwaunoda kuti ave panguva yakatarwa.
- Kusatendeseka. Haasi kure nekunyepa kuchengetedza uye kushandira zvido zvake
- Narcissism. Zvepanyama uye zvepfungwa: anoshandisa yakawandisa nguva kuchenesa pamberi pegirazi. Iye zvakare anozvidza zvido zvevamwe, achiisa pekutanga zvake.
- Usimbe. Iye haagovane mutoro webasa pamba, achikusiya iwe kuti uve mutoro kune ese mabasa epamba anodikanwa kuti imba irambe ichimhanya zvakanaka
- Anonzwa kuti vamwe vanhu vane chikwereti naye
- Yakafemerwa pfungwa yekodzero
- Anofunga kuti anogara akarurama uye vamwe vane mhosva yezvinhu zvese zvisirizvo
- Kusakwanisa kubvuma kuti kune mhedzisiro kune zvese zviito, kunyanya zviito zvine chepfu
Chii chiri kumashure kwemurume mwana chirwere?
Iwo anotyaira ari shure kwe murume asina mweya kurerwa kwake. Vakomana vane vabereki vakavagonesa kubva pazera diki kazhinji vanokura kuita vana vevanhu. Vakanga vaitirwa zvese sevakomana vadiki uye vanotarisira kuti izvi zvichaenderera muhupenyu hwese.
Kana iwe wakaroora kumurume mwana, iwe uchave nematambudziko mazhinji. Imwe ndeyekuti murume wako mwana akaramba kushanda. Mwana murume anogona kunetsekana kubata basa nekuda kwemaonero avo ekukura kune vamwe.
Hapana mushandirwi anozokoshesa mumwe munhu asingazotora mutoro wekukanganisa pabasa. Dzimwe nguva murume murume anogona kugara pabasa nekuti ivo vanowanzo fanika uye vanonakidza pakutanga (semwana) asi pakupedzisira, manejimendi anoona kuti ivo imhosva.
Panguva iyoyo, ivo vachadzingwa. Kana izvi zvikaitika kakawanda, hazvishamise kuti murume murume anoramba kushanda. Asi pachinzvimbo chekutarisa mukati kuti ubvunze kuti sei asingakwanise kubata basa, murume mwana anozopomera vamwe vese:
“Vose vakapusa. Ndiri mushandi wepamoyo kunze uko; imhosva yavo havazivi hunyanzvi kana huri pamberi pavo. ”
Kana iwe wakaroorwa nemurume murume, ndedzipi dzimwe nzira dzekurwisa?
Maitiro ekuita nemurume asina kushushikana murume
Kutanga, ziva kuti hausi wega. Varume vana vanogona kutanga kunakidza kwazvo, vachikudhonzera iwe munyika yavo. Saka usazvipe mhosva nekupinda muhukama uhu.
Kechipiri, nzwisisa kuti pane zvishoma zvaungaite kuti uchinje maitiro ake asina kusimba. Maitiro ake ekuve akadzika midzi, achidzokera kuhudiki hwake.
Uye nekuda kwekuti varume vana havagone kuona kuti maitiro avo ekushanda mupasi ane mhedzisiro kune vamwe, ivo havana kukurudzirwa kutsvaga shanduko.
Izvi zvinorevei kwauri? Imwe nzira ndeyekuregeredza hunhu hwake. Asi izvi zvinogona kunge zvakaoma, kunyanya kuzvinhu zvikuru-zvidiki senge kana akaramba kushanda. Zvibvunze kuti: Unoda here kuva wega anoriritira pahukama uhwu? Ukama husina kugadzikana uye hunogutsa?
Imwe nzira ndeyekuedza uye kusvika pakubvumirana nemurume wako murume murume. Kana ari simbe murume uye hapana huwandu hwekunetsekana kana kunyengerera wakanganisa, gara naye pasi womuudza kuti anogona kuva neimwe imba mumba maanogona kuzviitira zvinhu zvake.
Kamuri imwe chete. Yasara imba "nzvimbo yako." Iwe uchachengetedza hutsanana uye kurongeka mumakamuri ese asi murume wake bako. Inzwa wakasununguka kuisa mutemo uyu pasina kukoka hurukuro. Kana achizoita semwana, anogona kutarisirwa kubatwa saiye, futi.
Kubata ne murume asina kusimba pamoyo inogona kubhadhara iwe. Pane imwe nguva, iwe unogona kuda kutaura kune mupi wezano kana wekuroora, kunyangwe iwe uchifanira kuenda wega.
Hazvinakidze kurarama hupenyu pasi pemurume murume mazwi. Wese munhu anofanirwa hukama hunofadza uye hwakadzikama; icho chinangwa chehupenyu, handiti? Hazvingave zvisina musoro kuti iwe uzviwane uri mumamiriro ezvinhu kwaunotanga kuzvibvunza kana uchifanira kusiya hukama.
Vaimbova vakadzi avo vakasiya varume vavo vasina kusimba mupfungwa vanoti izvi: Kana iwe uchifungidzira wako mukomana asati akura iri kuratidza zviratidzo zvekuve murume mwana, usazvipira kune hukama hwakareba.
Usamhanye muzvinhu nekumhanyisa, kunyangwe iye ari bofu anotaridzika, achiyevedza, uye achiseka. Dzidza maitiro ekuziva zviratidzo zve man child syndrome, uye kana iwe ukaona, ari kuratidza mazhinji eaya, zviponese kubva mukunanga kuhukama husina mufaro.
Siya utsvage mumwe munhu. Kune hove dzakawanda mugungwa, saka tanga kushambira zvakare. Usambofa wakarasa tariro. Iwe unowana wako akakwana machisi, uye ino nguva ichave iine munhu mukuru-akura.