Zvemukati
- Chii chiri kudzipwa pabonde kana kukanganiswa kwekushushikana?
- Ndezvipi zvinofambidzana zvinofarira kudzipwa?
- Chengetedza tsika yacho pasi pekutarisa
- Tora matanho
Hupenyu hwaive hwakanyanya kuomarara kana 'bonde' raingova 'kugadzira rudo.' Asi, zvinhu zvakaomarara patakakura.
Zvino, iyo yakazara mashup yematemu uye mazwi ekuremekedza anotisiya isu tichinetseka uye zvotiita kuti tishamisika. Iko kusanganiswa kuri kukura uye machisi hakuna kungopinda chete mumawadhiropu edu asi zvakare kwakatsvedza chinyararire pakati pemashiti edu.
Vakaroorana vanoratidzira hunyanzvi hwavo hwekurara mumubhedha uye vanounza fetis yavo mukati memakamuri avo ekurara.
Chimwe chezvishuwo izvi mubhedhuru chinosanganisira kudzipwa nemumwe wavo panguva yepabonde. Kana uyu uri mukombe wako weti uye ukangwarira, tsika iyi inogona kutora munhu kusvika padanho rerufaro mafaro.
Zvepabonde hunyanzvi, uye unoda hunyanzvi kuti utore mumwe wako kuenda padanho rinonakidza rerufaro. Uye sehunyanzvi hwese hwakadzidza, mumwe anofanirwa kudzidzira zvakanyanya kuti aite zvirinani pamubhedha. Mushure mezvose, "kuita hakuiti kukwana. Kuita kwakakwana chete ndiko kunoita kuti kuve kwakakwana. ”
Nzvimbo dze porno dzakazara nemavhidhiyo paBDSM, MILFs, Teen bonde, Stepmom, uye Incest hukama. Kunyangwe 'kudzipwa pabonde' isina kusarudzika, iyi mhando yekuita bonde ndiyo imwe yezviitiko zvakajairika mumapoka ataurwa.
Iwe unogona kushamisika nenyaya yekuti aya masosi ekuona zvinonyadzisira anokwezva traffic yakawanda muidhijitari midhiya.
Vamwe vanhu vanozvibvunza kuti sei kudzipwa nemunhu kunoguma kupa mumwe munhu mufaro?
Kuti tiwane mhinduro, ngatitsvakei zvakadzama mune iyo nyaya.
Chii chiri kudzipwa pabonde kana kukanganiswa kwekushushikana?
Wikipedia inotsanangura kukachidza bonde se'kushushikana kwekushushikana (kwakasiyana-siyana kunonzi asphyxiophilia, hypoxyphilia kana mweya wekutamba wekutamba), 'inova ndiyo inorambidza oxygen kuuropi kuitira zvinangwa zvekumutsa bonde.'
Zviripachena, kune tsananguro iri kumashure kweiyi tsika inokura pakati pevanhu vanowana mufaro kubva kumavhidhiyo uye maitiro senge 'kudzipwa bonde,' 'kusungwa uye kushungurudzwa,' zvichingodaro.
Iyo sadomasochist hunhu muvanhu kazhinji yakavhiringidza vazhinji. Vanhu vaedza kujekesa zvikonzero zviri shure kwesarudzo idzi. Semuyenzaniso -
Dr. Gail Dines, anopesana nekuona zvinonyadzisira muratidziri, uye purofesa pa Wheelock College muBoston, munguva pfupi yapfuura akatumira tweet kuti vakadzi vanodzipwa hasha dzese. Inopiswa seinonakidza, inonakidza 'mweya wekutamba.'
Zvimwechetezvo, chirevo chaIan Kerner chakaburitswa muWomen's Health Magazine zvakare chinoratidza pamusoro pehunhu hwepfungwa hwevanhu hunounza hunhu hwakadai hwepabonde.
"Kufema kunouya mushure mekukachidzwa kunoburitsa maendorphin, ayo anosanganiswa neyekuita zvemakemikari ezvepabonde kuita kuti unzwe kufara kwakanyanya."
Dr. Ian Kerner chipangamazano wezvepabonde, chiremba wezvepfungwa, uye munyori webhuku 'Anouya pakutanga.'
Ndezvipi zvinofambidzana zvinofarira kudzipwa?
Chirevo chaDr Christine Milrod chakaburitswa mu 'The American Conservative' chinopindura mubvunzo uri pamusoro.
Kuva nemaoko emurume kutenderedza mutsipa wako, kunotamba mukufungidzira kwekutorwa, kunozivikanwawo sekupambwa.
Dr. Christine Milrod ane marezinesi Kuroora uye Mhuri Therapist muCalifornia.
Chengetedza tsika yacho pasi pekutarisa
Nhamba yepamusoro yevakafa nekuda kwekudzipwa muUnited States yaive 5 051 muna 2015.
Eotic asphyxiation kana kudzipwa pabonde ndeimwe yezvinhu zvine njodzi autoerotic zviitiko. Kucheka kana kudzikisa oxygen kuuropi kunokonzeresa shanduko yemamiriro ekuziva mune iye anoita zvakaipa. Iye akabatwa anogona kufa nekuwedzeredza kwekuzarirwa kana kutadza kumisa nzira dzekunakidzwa.
Tora matanho
Nekudaro, Dr. Debra Laino, wepabonde / wehukama murapi, akataura izvozvo “Kazhinji, tinoita zvinhu pabonde nekuti tinoziva kuti zvinoshandura mumwe wedu. Chokwadi icho icho uye choga chinogona kutitungidza — tichiziva kuti isu (miviri yedu) tiri kupa mufaro wacho. ”
Vanoenderera mberi vachiti "kutonga kwekutora hupenyu hwemumwe munhu nekumudzorera kunofadza kune vamwe. Kune vamwe, iko kudzika kwekugadzira rudo, uko kunosanganisira imwe nhanho yekuvimba uye kushamwaridzana.”
Kune rimwe divi, Dr. Stephanie Hunter Jones anoyambira vaverengi kuti 'kudzipwa nebonde' kunogona kuuraya kana kusingaitwe nehanya.
Anodaro “izvi zvinogona kuva kunakidzwa kune njodzi. Usamboshandisa doro kana zvinodhaka paunenge uchiita mutambo uyu. ”
Rangarira, kudzipwa pabonde kunogona kuve kwakanyanya kupindwa muropa, uye sekune zvese zvinodhaka. Iyo inogona kusiya munhu aine chishuwo chekuda zvakanyanya uye zvakanyanya ku vagutse.
Saka inotevera nguva, kana iwe nemudiwa wako muchifarira kutora iyo nhanho yekuwedzera kana zvasvika pakuita bonde remusango, chenjera, uye chenjera kusarega hutsinye hwako uye mufaro kupofumadza pfungwa dzako.
Zvakanaka, zvakakwana zvataurwa! Sevanhu vakuru vanobvumidza, iwe uchazoziva zvinoshanda zvakanyanya kwauri.