Zvemukati
- Kazhinji Kusafara neMuchato
- Mimwe Mikana yekubiridzira
- Kuvandudza Kubatana Pamhepo
- Anonzwa Kusurukirwa kana Kusanzwika
Kana vanhu vakanzwa nezve muchato uchiputsa pamusoro pekusavimbika, kazhinji vanhu vanofunga kuti murume ndiye ane mhosva. Ivo ndivo vanowanzo tenderera, handiti? Chaizvoizvo vakadzi vanobiridzira, zvakare, uye nhamba uye zvikonzero zvingakushamise iwe.
Zvinoenderana neongororo dzinoverengeka dzichangobva kuitwa, varume nevakadzi vakanaka chaizvo kana zvasvika pakubiridzira murume / mukadzi wavo. Saka zvinoita sekunge varume vari kuwana yakaipa rap kana zvasvika pakusakwanisa kuramba vakatendeka.Chaizvoizvo, zvaimbove zvechokwadi, asi mumakore achangopfuura, maererano neIndiana University muBloomington research research, 19 muzana yevakadzi uye 23 muzana yevarume vakataura sevakabiridzira panguva yewanano yavo.
Asi pamwe zvinonyanya kufadza ndizvo zvikonzero nei varoorani vachibiridzira. Kazhinji kazhinji kwete, varume vaitsvaga kumwe kwehukama / bonde kunakidzwa kunze kwemuchato. Asi vakadzi, pavanenge vachida kuwana izvo, havasi ivo chete vanotsvaga izvo chete. Kazhinji kazhinji vanoshuva shanduko yemirangariro. Zvinoenderana nezvidzidzo zvakasiyana, hezvino zvimwe zvikonzero nei vakadzi vachibiridzira:
Kazhinji Kusafara neMuchato
Chingave chinhu chihombe, kana kungoita zvakawanda zvidiki zvinhu. Asi mazuva ano, kana mukadzi asiri kufara, anotsvaga mufaro kumwe kunhu. Kana waunoshanda naye kana shamwari yechirume iri kumuteerera, anogona kutsauka nekuti iye munhu iyeye ari kuzadza bhaketi ravo rerufaro munzira dzeumwe wavo asiri.
Maddy vaiziva kuti murume wavo aive akanaka mukomana, asi aingonzwa kushungurudzika zuva nezuva. “Taingoda zvakasiyana. Ndinofunga pakutanga taive nemafungiro akafanana, asi nekufamba kwenguva takazoparadzana. ” Kusafara kwake kukuru kwakamutungamira achidzokera mumaoko erimi rekare raigara zvakanyanya sezvaaifungidzira. Asi sezvakazoitika, murume wake aibiridzirawo, saka vakabvuma kusiya nzira.
Mimwe Mikana yekubiridzira
Varume nevakadzi kazhinji havabiridzi kana vachiziva kuti vachazobatwa; asi pavanofunga kuti havazobatwa, iwo manhamba anochinja. Uye mazuva ano, paine vakadzi vazhinji mumabasa, mhuri dzine dzakabatikana mashedhiyo, kunze kwekushanya kweguta, nezvimwe, kune mikana yakawanda yekuzvinyima pasina murume kana murume anofungidzira chero chinhu.
Kate paakaudza murume wake wemakore mana kuti achatanga kuita misangano yemanheru evhiki yebasa, haana kana ziso. Izvo zvakavhurika manheru eChina ega ega kuti apedze nemumwe waaishanda naye waakange ave nehukama naye. Nyaya yacho yakaenderera kwerinopfuura gore asati azopedzisira audza murume wake ivo ndokurambana.
Kuvandudza Kubatana Pamhepo
Zvemagariro midhiya uye epamhepo kufambidzana masaiti zvinoita kuti zvive nyore kwazvo kuve nehanya zvishoma nemukomana wekare kana mumwe munhu mutsva. Vakadzi kazhinji havana kuita sehusiku humwe chete vanomira nemunhu wavasingazive. Asi, ivo vanowanzo kuve nehukama nemumwe munhu wavakabatana naye. Mune ino nguva uko kutaura online neyakare murazvo, kana kumisikidza fake online kufambidzana account iri nyore kwazvo, hazvishamise kuti vakadzi vari kuyedzwa.
Lacey aiziva kuti akange akaroora mukomana asiri iye, asi aive asina chokwadi chekuita kuti zvinhu zvive nani, uye aitya zvekumusiya. Akataura kwemaawa neumwe mukomana wekare shamwari kubva kusekondari, mushure mekumutsvaga pasocial media. Yakakura ikava yakawanda kupfuura hushamwari, uye kubudikidza nehukama ihwohwo akaona kusiyana kwakaita zvinhu. Akakurumidza kusiira murume wake shamwari yake yekusekondari.
Anonzwa Kusurukirwa kana Kusanzwika
Vakadzi vanofanirwa kunzwa kubatana newavakaroorana navo kuti vakwanisike. Kana mumwe wavo asipo panyama (anoshanda zvakawandisa), kana asingawanikwe pamoyo kana kungoti "musamu", ipapo anogona kutsvaga mumwe munhu anogona uye anoda. Zvinogona kunge zvichitove kuti murume wemukadzi aigara achibatana naye, asi nekufamba kwenguva mbichana yakadzikira. Iko kupisa kunogona kuvhenekera nemumwe munhu uye iye anogona kuyedzwa kuti ave asina kutendeka kuitira kuti anzwe seakakosha.
Sarah aive panguva yekuchinja nebasa rake; iye anga oda kusiya uye kutanga rake bhizinesi. Chakanga chave chiroto cheupenyu hwese kwaari. Chete, murume wake aisatsigira uye aisatomboita kunge ane hanya nezvake hope. Akanzwa kupwanyika zvakanyanya, akatadza kumutarisa zvakare. Mutengi waSarah aifara kwazvo nezve mazano ake uye pasina nguva vakagadzira kubatana kwaive naSara kwemakore. Vakanga vaine hukama hwakagara kusvika bhizinesi rake rabva pasi. Akapedzisira asiya nyaya ndokugara nemurume wake, nekuti ainzwa mhosva yezvaakaita. Ari kunzwa kuzadzikiswa nebhizinesi rake nyowani uye murume wake anotsigira zviroto zvake.