Zvemukati
Tsumo yekare inoti, "Kiyi yemoyo wemunhu iri kuburikidza nedumbu rake." Uye isu tinoshamisika kuti nei mwero wekurambana uchiramba uchikwira. Chimwe chikonzero chinogoneka, sekutsvaga kwangu, ndechekuti vaviri vakaroorana vari kuita bonde shoma muzana ramakumi maviri nemasere kupfuura nakare kose.
Izvo zviviri zvishuwo zvakasikwa zvishuwo zvinozivikanwa nemurume nemukadzi kudya uye bonde. Chichemo chikuru kubva kuvarume vanoshanyira maitiro angu ndechei? Kuti havasi kuwana bonde rakaringana kubva kumadzimai avo. Kana mudzimai akabvunzwa pfungwa dzake pamusoro pehuwandu hwepabonde, mhinduro inowanzoitika ndeyekuti, "Anoda bonde zvakanyanya, ini handisi muchina."
Semurapi wechirume anonyatsonzwisisa chishuwo chemuzvarirwo chevarume chebonde, ini ndinowanzo tsanangurira mukadzi kana chakakosha, kuti chishuwo chako chebonde hachina kusiyana nechido chako chekudya.
Vangu vatengi vechikadzi vanowanzoita kunge vakavhiringidzika, uye ipapo ipapo vanobvunza, "Chii chaanoda bonde neni tichida chikafu chakafanana?" Heino imwe tsananguro:
Wepakati murume uye murume wake zvinotsanangurwa nehupombwe hwake. Munguva yehukama uye pabonde, varume vanova shumba uye vakundi, vanozomira pasina kuti vatore chigaro chehumambo.
Chigaro cheumambo chinoumbwa nehunhu hwake uye dzidziso yenhema yekuti hunhu hwake hunotsanangurwa nekuita kwake pabonde, kuwanda pabonde, uye runako rwemukadzi akamupa mukana wekupinda mumba make.
Pane kutaura, varume havanzwisise kukosha kwechikafu muhupenyu hwemukadzi. Iko hakuna vakadzi vazhinji vanofamba pasi vangasarudza bonde panzvimbo pechikafu chavanofarira.
Chii chiri kuwirirana pakati pevakadzi nechikafu?
Sei vakadzi vachida chikafu zvakanyanya? Mhinduro dzinotangira pane "Zvinogutsa uye zvinondiisa munzvimbo yangu yekufara." Kuti, "Chikafu hachimbondirasise, uye ndinoziva chaizvo zvandiri kuwana mukurumwa kwese." Sekureva kwaFoodie Lolita M. Newell, "Chikafu chinondiita kuti ndinzwe kunaka, ndinoda chikafu, chinondiita kuti ndihonye, uye chinozorodza mweya wangu. Inokurudzira pfungwa dzangu, muviri, uye mweya. Chikafu chakanaka chinhu chinopa mweya, asi bonde riri bonde. ”
Bhuku rebhuku "Varume Vanobva kuMars uye Vakadzi Vari Kubva kuVenus," rinogona kutsiviwa ne, "Vakadzi kune Chikafu, seVarume kune Zvepabonde."
Kana vakaroorana vachida hukama hwakareba, varume nevakadzi vanofanirwa kunzwisisa uye kubvuma uku kwakakosha kusiyana kwevakadzi. Iye murume achibvuma kuti mukadzi wake anoziva hapana chinhu chinomufadza kupfuura iye mukicheni achigadzirira chikafu chaanoda. Iye anoona izvi se "mbiri".
Achazokunda zvishuwo zvake zviviri zvakasikwa muhusiku humwe. Zvakapesana nemurume wake.
Iye murume anoda bonde-rinofefetera bonde (remuromo rakabatanidzwa sezvo chiri chiyeuchidzo chake) uye apo achigara munzvimbo yake inokakavara, kudya kwakadzikama kwaizomuisa munzvimbo yemucheche, uku achisveta chigunwe chake nekurara. Sekutaura kune anozviti Bonde Savant Maurice Turner, "Chikafu chikuru chinhu chaunogona kuwana nekukurumidza kubva chero kupi, uye chero nguva, nepo bonde rakakura chiri chinhu chausingazowana icho kazhinji, ndezve nguva uye mumwe wako pabonde, nepo chikafu chakanaka chichigara chichipiwa. ”
Dai ndaigona kuwana vakaroorana kuti vanzwisise fananidzo yechikafu uye bonde revakadzi nevarume, zvichiteerana, ndinotenda hukama hungawirirana uye hunogona kugara kwenguva refu. Kugona kunzwisisa maonero emumwe wako pachinhu chipi nechipi ndiko kuita kuti muswedere padyo.
Heano kune chikafu chikuru uye bonde rakakura - manheru ano! Kudya kwakanaka!